CJ77 Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 ok so for those of you who been following my threads you can skip over this first paragraph..for those of u havent, me and my ex split almost 5 mnths ago,,,he did the dumping. since the breakup he still kept in touch w/ me like at least once a week or so. he broke it off with me bc we work together and he claimed it was too stressful with the other guys getting in our business and the last straw for him was when a guy who works with us told me how he went out with two girls and a guy when he hadnt seen me. i got upset at that and he broke it off, even tho he said he still liked me and thought i was the best but it just didnt feel the same as when we first started dating soooo heres the update....so i been noticing lately when he sees me at work he stares alot, looks extremely happy and excited to see me, talks to me more at work... so the other night after work he called to ask if i was ok bc i seemed upset at work,,,i told him i was just stressed bc it wasa busy day...he seemed very concerned about me...then he went on to say that he wanted me to know that sometimes he thinks what the hell was he thinking to loose me, that he never forgot me and that sometimes he could kick himself....since that talk that night he contacts me constantly and is flirty with me but yet doesnt mention about giving us another shot.....he also tells me how he doesnt plans to go back to college next semester bc he plans to go into the military sometime in the winter soooooo what does this alll mean..pls help!! Link to post Share on other sites
Mike1966 Posted October 16, 2007 Share Posted October 16, 2007 I don't know your background so take my opinion for what it's worth, okay? Sounds like this guy is pretty immature and wants to have you but not commit to you maybe?? I'm not sure. It depends on what you like I suppose.................I was never one for all of the game playing BS. If he likes you and wants to have an actual "adult" relationship, I would think rather than the calls all the time or flirting all the time he was be mature enough to tell you. IMO, with this guy, you're gonna get exactly what the title said in your post "a soap opera". To me it sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do. If he really, really liked you he wouldn't risk all this jacking around and chance letting you get away. Link to post Share on other sites
Spinderella Posted October 17, 2007 Share Posted October 17, 2007 Its obvious that he still likes you. Either that or he likes the attention from you. Next time he brings it up, just say "well, its pointless talking like this" and change the subject. Link to post Share on other sites
Fancee Posted October 18, 2007 Share Posted October 18, 2007 You got your hopes up. Let them done before he do it for you. Its might be a booty call. He dumped you after your feelings was hurt. Why didn't he dumped his friends and say sorry? That kick to the curb he gave you - means I am a grown man and we are not committed. He is switches and he will switch again on you. But just for fun nothing serious with him. He is leaving for bootcamp and going to iraq. He is not looking for anything serious. You seem to want him and its ok if you don't go falling all in love and don't date him exclusively. Everything gonna be alright anyway. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CJ77 Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 You got your hopes up. Let them done before he do it for you. Its might be a booty call. He dumped you after your feelings was hurt. Why didn't he dumped his friends and say sorry? That kick to the curb he gave you - means I am a grown man and we are not committed. He is switches and he will switch again on you. But just for fun nothing serious with him. He is leaving for bootcamp and going to iraq. He is not looking for anything serious. You seem to want him and its ok if you don't go falling all in love and don't date him exclusively. Everything gonna be alright anyway. well im always open to input but what exactly do u mean by him dumping me to the curb says hes a grown man...all that shows me is a guy who dumped his gf for a stupid lame reason, possibly even an excuse as a way out bc he wasnt man enough to tell me the real reason...and how do u know everything is going to be alright.......... Link to post Share on other sites
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