I broke the news...updates

[MrsHellnoFire]

 

If kchia were smart she'd consider the the people giving her advice. I don't think I'd be taking it from a bunch of embittered old harpies.

 

yeah.. she should consider taking advice from a woman who aborted her child only to have her hubby two-time her.. sorry, but there is too much anger inside you that it clouds any of your so-called "advice" if that's what YOU call it.

Exactly why she shouldn't listen to bitter bags who are pro-abortion for themselves and others (not pro-choice) and whom have had their hubbies cheat on them thereafter.. it's called bias and you are so full of bitter and hate towards women, i think it's funny. i think it's very funny how you let your hubby get away with his behavior while turning vengeful against the rest of the world for HIS decisions. oh well.. you sound pretty desperate and needy to me.

she didnt ask for your advice on whether or not continue her pregnancy btw, in case you missed that. she asked for advice regarding something else entirely but i guess you have trouble reading through your thick anger and jealousy.

[Ladyjane14]

...please give me a break on what ever it is you are trying to teach me.

 

I wasn't speaking directly to you, LNF. Tell you what... if I ever get the urge, I'll make a point of letting you know it.

[MrsHellnoFire]

Good grief! Just in case none of you have ever heard it before... "throwing the baby out the window" is a figure of speech. It describes that moment of frustration when the kid is crying inconsolably, mommy has tried EVERYTHING and has become exceedingly frustrated, and all that's left to do is take a deep breath and regroup. I've heard this expression many times, and even heard it on a re-run of Scrubs just last week.

 

Abortion is legal in the United States, and is an option for any woman who so desires it. Adoption and 'keeping the baby' are also options for women experiencing unplanned pregnancies.

 

Birth control is cheap and easy, although not 100% effective. Abstaining from sexual intercourse with a man who isn't free to be a full-time father to your child IS 100% effective in preventing unplanned pregnancy.

 

And as far as taxpayer-funded welfare goes... IO isn't the only one who's tired of having her pockets picked by perfectly capable people who can't (or won't) plan ahead. It's one thing to fall on hard times and need a little bit of help getting over the hump. But we've got whole generations now living in Uncle Sam's pocket, as if that money didn't come out of the paychecks of REAL PEOPLE.

 

Freedom of choice is a GOOD thing, IMO. And hopefully, if the OP needs assistance "getting over the hump" it will only be for a short while. As a taxpayer, I can live with that.

 

 

(p.s. I just re-read my post ...., and "getting over the hump" is no pun intended. Again.... Good grief! )

 

 

First off, IO was not using it as a figure of speech as "lover" already stated. She went on to state that she could have done something harmful if it weren't for her husband.

Secondly, the OP was not asking for advice on whether not to continue her pregnancy and IO forced her biased opinion down her throat in a hateful and mean-spirited manner. It's unacceptable.

[Ladyjane14]

First off, IO was not using as a figure of speech as "lover" already stated.

 

How do you KNOW that?

Seriously, I'm not being facetious. We read the same posts, but that's not what I took away from it. IO might be forceful in her opinions, but this thread has gone on for PAGES with people insulting her quite graphically. She has a right to post whatever she pleases as long as it's within the guidelines of LS's TOS.

 

Isn't it easier just to use the ignore feature and move on with the thread if somebody doesn't like what they're hearing?

[lovernotafighter]

I wasn't speaking directly to you, LNF. Tell you what... if I ever get the urge, I'll make a point of letting you know it.

 

oh yes. please be sure NOT to do that, thanks

[MrsHellnoFire]

How do you KNOW that?

Seriously, I'm not being facetious. We read the same posts, but that's not what I took away from it. IO might be forceful in her opinions, but this thread has gone on for PAGES with people insulting her quite graphically. She has a right to post whatever she pleases as long as it's within the guidelines of LS's TOS.

 

Isn't it easier just to use the ignore feature and move on with the thread if somebody doesn't like what they're hearing?

 

Well in the context of her post, it was not used as an expression and she never claimed that either afterwards.

 

haha.. as well as I HAVE THE RIGHT TO POST WHATEVER I PLEASE as long as it's within guidelines. Maybe YOU should use the ignore button. But I guess you feel only some should have the right to insult while others should remain quiet? Treat others the way you want to be treated. If you disrespect people, dont expect to be hugged and kissed afterwards.

[lovernotafighter]

side note - does anyone else see this thread bringing out some yawnies or is it just me?

[MrsHellnoFire]

side note - does anyone else see this thread bringing out some yawnies or is it just me?

 

lol. yeah it's pretty pointless actually.

i mean debating which window this woman was going to throw their child out of gets quite boring after a while.

 

maybe a few more odd user names will pop up tonight.

[Ladyjane14]

But I guess you feel only some should have the right to insult while others should remain quiet?

 

It's not needful to make assumptions. If that's what I wanted to say... I'd say come right out and say it. I'm not as bashful as all that.

 

As to the other... consider it done. Have a pleasant evening and a nice life.

[SoxPrincess]

And as far as taxpayer-funded welfare goes... IO isn't the only one who's tired of having her pockets picked by perfectly capable people who can't (or won't) plan ahead. It's one thing to fall on hard times and need a little bit of help getting over the hump. But we've got whole generations now living in Uncle Sam's pocket, as if that money didn't come out of the paychecks of REAL PEOPLE.

 

I just want to point out that the OP of this thread NEVER mentioned going on welfare or any form of government assistance. This whole thing started because someone suggested she look into it JUST IN CASE she fell on hard times. KChia has made no mention of her financial situation or if she will or won't need government aid. It only turned into this broohaha after IO spoke up with her words of infinite wisdom

 

**This isn't directed at your LJ, I just quoted your text because I'm to lazy to search back for the first post that mentioned government assistance.**

 

 

 

side note - does anyone else see this thread bringing out some yawnies or is it just me?

 

Yup! It's been quite obvious that the lovely Yawnies have made their presence known on this thread as well as MANY others on LS lately. I have a good friend who pretends to be one of those bitter old hags over there & she emails me TONS of their lil goodies I'll send her an email right now and have her check if anyone has mentioned this thread over there hehe.

[Impudent Oyster]

you made it clear that you didn't care if your hubby cheated again and that makes a loveless marriage. keep up the facade dear. take care...

 

You best pull out your reading glasses genius, I never said I didn't CARE if he cheated, I said I refuse to waste my time keeping him under surveillance. Next time you want to produce a past post as evidence, don't take it out of context, it makes you so much less incredulous.

 

If people are going to cheat GPS's and cell phone records aren't going to stop them. I won't be reduced to spying on my husband, that's not how I plan to live my life.

 

For the record, once again, we are deeply in love, but feel free to post your twisted version of MY life, it's fascinating.

[NoIDidn't]

I just want to point out that the OP of this thread NEVER mentioned going on welfare or any form of government assistance. This whole thing started because someone suggested she look into it JUST IN CASE she fell on hard times. KChia has made no mention of her financial situation or if she will or won't need government aid. It only turned into this broohaha after IO spoke up with her words of infinite wisdom

 

**This isn't directed at your LJ, I just quoted your text because I'm to lazy to search back for the first post that mentioned government assistance.**

 

Thanks, Sox. I was the one who said it. I think its really sad that "corporate welfare" and the likes of tax fraud and Securities fraud is a-ok to some, but God forbid we actually GIVE our tax dollars to a PERSON instead of an ENTITY.

 

I said it. And if anyone needs it, there is no shame in getting it. The law states now that you only get to have it for about two years anyway before you have to get a job. Its used as a hand UP not a hand OUT.

 

Sorry KChia. Really. I just wanted you to be aware of YOUR options considering your decision to KEEP YOUR child. I know that your original post was only to let us know that MM was happy to hear about the pregnancy and that you never really asked for a bit of advice on that. Your bigger concerns were how to tell your family and deal with the fallout.

 

My post inflamed IO. I am really sorry that this thread has denigrated into nothing more than a debate on abortion, welfare, and taxes.

[GreenEyedLady]

I am really sorry that this thread has denigrated into nothing more than a debate on abortion' date=' welfare, and taxes.[/quote']

 

I agree...

[lovernotafighter]

You best pull out your reading glasses genius, I never said I didn't CARE if he cheated, I said I refuse to waste my time keeping him under surveillance. Next time you want to produce a past post as evidence, don't take it out of context, it makes you so much less incredulous.

 

If people are going to cheat GPS's and cell phone records aren't going to stop them. I won't be reduced to spying on my husband, that's not how I plan to live my life.

 

For the record, once again, we are deeply in love, but feel free to post your twisted version of MY life, it's fascinating.

 

so which is it that you want?

 

I want clarity cause I'd enjoying twisting your words further.

 

Originally Posted by NoIDidn't

I am really sorry that this thread has denigrated into nothing more than a debate on abortion, welfare, and taxes.

 

I agree as well and I'm sorry for not helping but adding to the BS in this thread.

 

I hope KC didn't drop LS but I can't blame her if she did.

[MrsHellnoFire]

"If he needs his ego-stroked again then I can't stop him, I'll be fine. I've got too much going for me to worry about an errant husband, I'm not going to worry about it "

 

Just your words.. not mine!

So apparently you'll turn a blind eye because you really don't want to live without his money or the perfect facade that you have built. In the posts where you claim to be happy, it's nothing more but equating love with money. I really could care less about how many vacation houses he buys you; fact is he isn't in love with you hence his screwing around. And you seem to care less as long as your lifestyle and facade is kept intact. Truth is that you don't really work and rely on him for everything.

 

Thanks for continually trying to prove to everyone how happy you are. Shows how in doubt you are.

Money and false promises doesn't buy happiness hun. I know happiness and also bulls when I hear it. All of your putrid posts all across the loveshack website scream otherwise.

 

And those letters you made fun of from the ow.. your hubby needed that and wasn't getting it from you the "COLD BITTER uptight BAG" that he lies in bed with every day.

[Tony]

This thread has run its course. The last 15 or so posts have been deleted because of the mean back and forth bantering that was off topic and contained personal attacks, sarcasm and rudeness. Thread closed!