lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Well, see, I accidentally responded to this thread, meaning to respond to another thread where the poster was saying women should get very cheap and obtainable abortions, courtesy of Uncle Sam. I apologized for the mistake. where is this thread IO, whoops I mean OB? Link to post Share on other sites
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 where is this thread IO, whoops I mean OB? yeah i cant find it either. you really think they are the same person? i thought they sounded eerily similiar as well. Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 yeah i cant find it either. you really think they are the same person? i thought they sounded eerily similiar as well. I don't know who else would jump in this thread and defend IO's non-sense, so it has to be her, if not then this world is even scarier than I thought Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 OB tampons? Is that to what you're referring??? Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 OB tampons? Is that to what you're referring??? more or less Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Yeah, I admitted my mistake in accidentally posting on this thread, it was norajane who chose to respond to my mistake. post a link to this thread, I really want to see it. also MHnF theres a serial socker here who writes like this too..Hmm makes me wonder, I'll ask for a sock check Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 I've been looking for the 'mentioned' thread - see none. So like I said, deliberately done! Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 yeah i cant find it either. you really think they are the same person? i thought they sounded eerily similiar as well. Glad you all agree! Btw, great posts MHnF and LovenotaFighter!! Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Glad you all agree! Btw, great posts MHnF and LovenotaFighter!! ditto lyssa, and thank you though MHnF really did some research, right on!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 I don't think IO actually read word by word of what everyone here have said. If she did, it's either she doesn't GET what was written or she is just plain IGNORANT like everyone said she is. Link to post Share on other sites
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 "Doesn't she want her own family some day? Don't you think it's going to be difficult for her to date, or to find a nice single guy when she's struggling to care for a baby on her own?" Her child is a part of her family now. With all the divorce and 2nd, 3rd, hell even 4th marriages going on now these days, what makes you think it would be so hard to find someone else? There are many single fathers out there as well looking for someone.. sounds like you live in a fishbowl or something. What I'm more concerned about is that the OP seems to have flew the coup and i hope she isn't frightened into making a decision that she doesn't want to make. im done here. i just hope io gets some mental help for her issues. nastiest woman i think ive ever heard on here. Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 I don't think IO actually read word by word of what everyone here have said. If she did, it's either she doesn't GET what was written or she is just plain IGNORANT like everyone said she is. she claims to have a masters and wastes it sitting around following ow's/om's on public forums? she also wanted to throw a baby out of a car window and compared infidelity to abortion so I'd go with ignorant lyssa Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 "Doesn't she want her own family some day? Don't you think it's going to be difficult for her to date, or to find a nice single guy when she's struggling to care for a baby on her own?" Her child is a part of her family now. With all the divorce and 2nd, 3rd, hell even 4th marriages going on now these days, what makes you think it would be so hard to find someone else? There are many single fathers out there as well looking for someone.. sounds like you live in a fishbowl or something. What I'm more concerned about is that the OP seems to have flew the coup and i hope she isn't frightened into making a decision that she doesn't want to make. im done here. i just hope io gets some mental help for her issues. nastiest woman i think ive ever heard on here. I really worried about this to. people like IO really should be ashamed of them selves. KC needed some support and caring advice and found a monster like IO, it's really really sad Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Doesn't she want her own family some day? Don't you think it's going to be difficult for her to date, or to find a nice single guy when she's struggling to care for a baby on her ownOMG! Which generation were you from? KC can always get a babysitter (have you heard of it?) or I'm sure she can find a way to date again. Having kids and being a single parent shouldn't stop one from dating and trust me, there ARE men out there who would date single mothers. Only KC knows what she really wants.. what I know is that she came here for some support but with the way you put out your words, it scared her away! Thanks for that! Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Well, see, I accidentally responded to this thread, meaning to respond to another thread where the poster was saying women should get very cheap and obtainable abortions, courtesy of Uncle Sam. I apologized for the mistake. You're full of sh!!T there is no other thread that says that and you know it. Nice job trying to back peddle, why don't you just admit that your words sound just as ridiclous as IO's and now you are too embarassed to admit what moronic things you chose to post here for everyone to see. It's ok to admit a mistake and admit that what is not ok is to defend your stupidity, that makes you sound even more ridiculous. Link to post Share on other sites
sarme Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Since you want to dig up other peoples pasts on here.. I can now see why you are so bitter. Oh and having an abortion just to marry the same man five years later who ends up cheating on you in a marriage devoid of any love etc .... yeah that was worth it. So much for a post a while ago stating "i would never get involved with a cheater". YOU ARE! Now we all know why you are so arrogant and hateful in this thread. Maybe some anger management would help rather than hating on every woman that mm DECIDE and CHOOSE to sleep with and/or impregnate. I can't say that I blame your hubby as it sounds like you lost your soul and humanity ages ago. ALL of your posts on this website are rude and distasteful. Get some CLASS AND TACT and I'm horrified to think a woman like you is RAISING A CHILD!!!! Oh is that what happened to her MissHEll? IS this IO we are talking about or OB? Well that explains a lot!! Here I thought IO had been dropped on her head as a baby, but no she actually did it to herself with the horrible choices she has made in her life, that explains it all. Kchia if you are still reading don't worry about the horrible things that were said in this thread, you are young and it will be hard to bring a child on your own and with little support from your family but not impossible and there are MANY MANY men who will date single moms, heck there are even dating sites for single parents, it's a sign of the times. Don't let the scare tactics used by the ignorant, scare you it's not such a big crtical world out there,. there is always someone who will accept us just as we are and will love us no matter what. I hope you are doing well Kchia, shame you didn't come back because of some bad apples. Link to post Share on other sites
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Hi. Yes, those are posts from IO where she talks about her cheating husband on someone elses thread a long time ago around the beginning of her loveshack posting career. Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Hey, quit it! This is serious thread stealin' here and it isn't fair to KC! This is HER thread for support, so debate in PM's or start another thread! Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 I'm literally laughing my ass off...a marriage devoid of any love? Where did you get that BS from?? My husband and I love each other very, very much, (just got back from looking at vacation homes, making sure they had enough rooms for grandchildren), we've been married 20 years and together 27, and he made one stupid mistake in all that time when he was too nice to a deluded, goldigging divorcee...no biggie. I hear she's still stalking married men looking for a husband, but, no luck. She reminds me of a lot of some of the posters here... If kchia were smart she'd consider the the people giving her advice. I don't think I'd be taking it from a bunch of embittered old harpies. Link to post Share on other sites
Impudent Oyster Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 she claims to have a masters and wastes it sitting around following ow's/om's on public forums? she also wanted to throw a baby out of a car window and compared infidelity to abortion so I'd go with ignorant lyssa The BS gets better and better...I consult occasionally, in between posting on OW boards, and it wasn't a car window, it was a bedroom window that I FELT like throwing a screaming baby out of, obviously I didn't....We have wonderful, affectionate, loving children who we hug and kiss on a daily basis to the point of embarassment, but keep coming up with more versions of my life, it's oh so comical! PS, Hellsonfire should be really horrified, I'm raising more than one child..... Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 The BS gets better and better...I consult occasionally, in between posting on OW boards, and it wasn't a car window, it was a bedroom window that I FELT like throwing a screaming baby out of, obviously I didn't....We have wonderful, affectionate, loving children who we hug and kiss on a daily basis to the point of embarassment, but keep coming up with more versions of my life, it's oh so comical! PS, Hellsonfire should be really horrified, I'm raising more than one child..... ...and throwing a baby out of a 'car' window and throwing a baby out of a 'bedroom' window is sUuuch a huge leap, omg IO I am so sorry! my bad!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ladyjane14 Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Good grief! Just in case none of you have ever heard it before... "throwing the baby out the window" is a figure of speech. It describes that moment of frustration when the kid is crying inconsolably, mommy has tried EVERYTHING and has become exceedingly frustrated, and all that's left to do is take a deep breath and regroup. I've heard this expression many times, and even heard it on a re-run of Scrubs just last week. Abortion is legal in the United States, and is an option for any woman who so desires it. Adoption and 'keeping the baby' are also options for women experiencing unplanned pregnancies. Birth control is cheap and easy, although not 100% effective. Abstaining from sexual intercourse with a man who isn't free to be a full-time father to your child IS 100% effective in preventing unplanned pregnancy. And as far as taxpayer-funded welfare goes... IO isn't the only one who's tired of having her pockets picked by perfectly capable people who can't (or won't) plan ahead. It's one thing to fall on hard times and need a little bit of help getting over the hump. But we've got whole generations now living in Uncle Sam's pocket, as if that money didn't come out of the paychecks of REAL PEOPLE. Freedom of choice is a GOOD thing, IMO. And hopefully, if the OP needs assistance "getting over the hump" it will only be for a short while. As a taxpayer, I can live with that. (p.s. I just re-read my post ...., and "getting over the hump" is no pun intended. Again.... Good grief! ) Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 there called idioms and I am familiar with them LJ however that isn't what IO was using it as so please give me a break on what ever it is you are trying to teach me. edit also - if you wanna say it's not a 'idiom' I could careless so spare me that as well Link to post Share on other sites
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 I consult occasionally, in between posting on OW boards haha. now that's funny ) and it wasn't a car window, it was a bedroom window that I FELT like throwing a screaming baby out of oh, well in that case.. Hellsonfire should be really horrified, I'm raising more than one child..... Tell them GOOD LUCK for me, will you? they're gonna need it. you made it clear that you didn't care if your hubby cheated again and that makes a loveless marriage. keep up the facade dear. take care... Link to post Share on other sites
lovernotafighter Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Originally Posted by Impudent Oyster I consult occasionally, in between posting on OW boards hahaha!! I missed the 'irony' (LJ - maybe you can throw this on me, smarty) in the whole consulting thing!! LMFAO!! :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
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