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I have an open forum question to whomever reads this: how do you distinguish the difference between a 'friend' and a step or two above, such as a 'boyfriend?'

 

I know this question is quite self explanatory.... but do to the fact that I'm trying to decifier these to words, I was hoping someone could clarify their meanings? :confused:

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i'd say that the easiest way to tell them apart is by presence of mutual physical attraction, which is being acted upon, or is at least shown & known.

 

-yes

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Well, boyfriends do the following:

 

-- call you

-- take you out on dates

-- introduce you to their parents and families

-- buy you flowers

-- pay when you go out

-- kiss you, hug you, sleep with you, etc.

-- Tell you they love you

-- Ask you to marry them

-- Talk about your future together

-- Buy you OJ when you are sick

-- Etc...

 

Friends, on the other hand do exactly the same types of things that your girlfriends do.

 

Your main differences are the dates and the intimacy.

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a boyfriend will offer you more of a feeling of being wanted more than anyone else, by a single person. like, a friend, has many other friends, and possibly a girlfriend who he is going to care for more than anyone else..... or at least act like he does.

 

it's all a feeling of how important you are in their ranks of people.

 

i hope that clarifies it a bit.

 

well, at least, that's my interpretation of the meanings... but yah.

 

see ya.

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Hey everyone!!

 

I just wanted to thank all of you which responded to my 'open' forum question, thee other day(s). Although I knew the meaning(s) of a friend--vs--boyfriend, etc. I just wanted to get other viewpoints from individuals such as yourself..

 

Anyways, I have college FINALS all week..!!.. Fun, fun, fun. Thanks, again,

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Good luck on your finals...and many thanks for stopping by to express your appreciation. It's always nice to know we've helped in some way.

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