candykisses Posted October 18, 2007 Share Posted October 18, 2007 I thought I was right about this guy, but maybe I wrong. A little background about my situation.... I have liked this guy for a little while and made sure that he knew it as well. The signs he was putting out (or what I thought were signs anyway) he would walk by me and look back at me and smile and wave, or he would come by every morning and look over at me and do the same smile and wave. I called him over one morning and asked him if he got a piece of cake that I had sent to him that was from my b-day that a co worker had brought in for me. We talked for a moment and he wished me happy birthday. Since then it seems we have been getting comfortable with one another, and things were moving in the right direction. So the past couple of days it seems he is avoiding me, not coming by in the morning, he has been walking over to his office in the building that we share through the parking lot instead of walking through the building like he has been doing forever, just like all of his co workers. Everything seemed fine up until a couple of days ago, he came by but I was busy doing some paper work and my coworkers told me that he looked over at me as he passed and then about an hour later he came by and looked at me and we waved to each other, but that has been the last time he has come by. Did I read it all wrong or am I letting my insecurities get the better of me? I know he is at work because I have seen him leave the building. Maybe he thinks I'm not interested or something. Any advice on how I can find out what is going on or should I just forget him and move on? Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
JosieMcCoy Posted October 18, 2007 Share Posted October 18, 2007 I think you let your insecurities get the best of you!!! Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
Amy22 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 I would give it some more time and see what happens. Maybe something stressful happened with family or friends and he has just been down and that is why he hasn't come by. I can't really say if you read it wrong. I could see a person doing those things just as friends or because they liked someone. I think only time will tell. If he likes you he should start to show some other signs. Talk more. See what you are up to on the weekends. Something like that. Good luck and see how the next few days go and what he does. Link to post Share on other sites
Author candykisses Posted October 19, 2007 Author Share Posted October 19, 2007 Thanks for the replies. Well this morning I was talking to my boss and I looked over his shoulder and I saw the guy I liike, he was looking at me and so I smiled and he smiles and gave a quick wave. So I guess I just let my insecurities get the better of me. Link to post Share on other sites
Providence Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 I wouldn't worry about it too much, when i see that things are going in the right direction I start to get worried about how to act and avoid the girl. So don't worry about it and give it some time. Link to post Share on other sites
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