jay72chevy Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 Hi I recently started in a business school . The girl who helped me start is the girl i like and i thin she likes me back. My mom and I met her to join up at the school. When the interview was done she said to us so what you guys doing this weekend. I think She smiles at me. The first day i had class she ws getting off and i walked to the car to go to the other building and she walked right behind to her car and we talked i asked her something and she said wel they dont always let me know whats going on. She said how is your first day or something to me etc. After that she walked over to her car and dong so she got a phone call on her cell phone and I heard her say something like I just got off why? Then she sounded like she taling to a b/f, cause she was lke why do u do that or something . Maybe she got a b/f?? She might be just too nice i guess? The other day i saw her and i asked her if she can photocopy something for me she said what its for my project and she said no problem. I walked to the room while she was photocopying and she started to ask me questions like hows everything going? I said good. She said i guess its busy. Then she asked me how is your mom doing. I said she is a nrses something or other then i said cna and she was folowing u on that oh she is a cna i said yep. I then said hey didnt yo say yor going back to school and she said yes tonight actually. Then i said well i didnt know if yo were around or to who to ask for questions then. If yo need help with anything just let me know. Then i had to get going. I thin she followed me out and i guess reading the back of my tee shirt i guess. So i am getting mixed feelings here. I am not a social person i need to work on that. What yo guys think on what i should do? She has an email through the school. She works for the school. Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 I had a hard time understanding your sentences as many ran together or lacked quotation marks . Not sure where one sentence ended and the next ... Just ask her out. This will be too complicated to correspond with you here further unless you break up your sentences into paragraphs... thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
bestadvisor Posted October 19, 2007 Share Posted October 19, 2007 What kind of business school do you attend? Link to post Share on other sites
Author jay72chevy Posted October 20, 2007 Author Share Posted October 20, 2007 It has more than one buisness class. So if your looking for a particular, I could tell yo if yo need. Link to post Share on other sites
Tropicalchris Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 I would recommend before starting in the business school you take some English classes to learn grammar and sentence structure. Then after that, take a public speaking class to learn how to effectively communicate. That should help you not fail out of business school. As for your relationship, I honestly think it sounds like she just wants to be friendly. I know girls who are like that, just asking questions to see how the other person is. It does not mean she likes you. Trust me, you will know if a girl likes you without having to ask on here. I would say that you ask her to come out with a group of your friends to a bar/club and invite her along to bring her friends. If she brings her boyfriend...then problem solved. But if she just comes along, even better. But either way you can make a good friend of the opposite sex, or have a potential girl for dating. My roommate was horrible at asking people out, and just too afraid to. Then one day he made a cheesecake, and asked this girl who lived in our apartment complex if she wanted some with him. And as odd as that sounded, she just began liking him a lot...and now they are dating. No one that knows him understands how that happened...but it did! Moral from that? It never hurts to try. Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 20, 2007 Share Posted October 20, 2007 Hey, guys, for those of you who criticized the original poster and told him about his sentence structure and not getting into business school etc...how is this on-topic and truly helping the OP's original problem? You guys are VERY rude, sorry. This man simply wants dating advice; he did not ask for spelling or sentence structure advice. Link to post Share on other sites
Blurple Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Aside from the bad grammar, it looks like he just rambled off his post and didnt care to check it or proof read it. OH well The only thing you need to do is talk to her.. talk about the school. start to talk about things you have in common, current events, things like that. treat her like a buddy you would talk to. don't make passes don't hit no her. Then ask her what she does for fun.. ( then you say "oh me too how weird") then let it go from there. if you feel like she is continually asking you qustions that pertain to outside of school then do the same. then finally tell her that she is very interesting and and cool blah blah blah.. then ask her to hang out if she has time.. . IE bar, party ect. this means getting her phone number after a good but small convo...... Very easy right... should be because sounds like she opened it up for that two times. Could just be she wants to have friends nothing wrong with a wing chick they work wonders!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Aside from the bad grammar, it looks like he just rambled off his post and didnt care to check it or proof read it. OH well The only thing you need to do is talk to her.. talk about the school. start to talk about things you have in common, current events, things like that. treat her like a buddy you would talk to. don't make passes don't hit no her. Then ask her what she does for fun.. ( then you say "oh me too how weird") then let it go from there. if you feel like she is continually asking you qustions that pertain to outside of school then do the same. then finally tell her that she is very interesting and and cool blah blah blah.. then ask her to hang out if she has time.. . IE bar, party ect. this means getting her phone number after a good but small convo...... Very easy right... should be because sounds like she opened it up for that two times. Could just be she wants to have friends nothing wrong with a wing chick they work wonders!!! No offense but your writing talents are no better. Link to post Share on other sites
Blurple Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 No offense but your writing talents are no better. I never said they were... I was just defending him.. I type these post out as fast as I can... I mean im not trying to write something for you to grade Link to post Share on other sites
BlueEyedSarah Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Hi I recently started in a business school . The girl who helped me start is the girl i like and i thin she likes me back. My mom and I met her to join up at the school. When the interview was done she said to us so what you guys doing this weekend. I think She smiles at me. The first day i had class she ws getting off and i walked to the car to go to the other building and she walked right behind to her car and we talked i asked her something and she said wel they dont always let me know whats going on. She said how is your first day or something to me etc. After that she walked over to her car and dong so she got a phone call on her cell phone and I heard her say something like I just got off why? Then she sounded like she taling to a b/f, cause she was lke why do u do that or something . Maybe she got a b/f?? She might be just too nice i guess? The other day i saw her and i asked her if she can photocopy something for me she said what its for my project and she said no problem. I walked to the room while she was photocopying and she started to ask me questions like hows everything going? I said good. She said i guess its busy. Then she asked me how is your mom doing. I said she is a nrses something or other then i said cna and she was folowing u on that oh she is a cna i said yep. I then said hey didnt yo say yor going back to school and she said yes tonight actually. Then i said well i didnt know if yo were around or to who to ask for questions then. If yo need help with anything just let me know. Then i had to get going. I thin she followed me out and i guess reading the back of my tee shirt i guess. So i am getting mixed feelings here. I am not a social person i need to work on that. What yo guys think on what i should do? She has an email through the school. She works for the school. Sounds like she is just being friendly like she would with anyone else. Link to post Share on other sites
Oregon Blackberry Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 I never said they were... I was just defending him.. I type these post out as fast as I can... I mean im not trying to write something for you to grade that is fine. I come here and have been nailed for typos, spelling, and the like and people don't realize I don't come here to be judged either. I don't go back over my posts and correct them. Link to post Share on other sites
Blurple Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 what you really need to do is simple talk to her. you will find out sooner or later.. its that easy.. when two people like each other things just happen.. enough said Link to post Share on other sites
Author jay72chevy Posted October 26, 2007 Author Share Posted October 26, 2007 It is hard to do since, she is working at the school I go to. She does take the time to ask me about my mom that she met this year and she asks me how I am doing as well. I just looked her up in the computer. I saw last year picture of her and it look different. It looks like she was alittle bit bigger last year. This year it seems like she lost weight or something. When she helped me start school she asked us at the end this " so what are yo gus doing this weekend?" One of the first days I was walking out of the school to go to class, she was walking out too right behind me. She was walking to her car and so was I. I said Hi to her she started to talk to me. I knew she was done working at the school. She was smiling and I was asking her a simple question. She answered it. She said "How is yor first day gong?" I answered. She repied " If you need anymore help Im always here" something like that to me. That was in the parking lot. Plus I asked her to photo copy something for me she did. It seems everytime she asks a question she asks abot my family then about me. I think is she wants to know more about me , without sounding like she lkes me or something infront everyone or let me know. I am not sure. Plus I saw that she has ICQ and saw her page. Its looks to be old. It seems that she hasnt been on it either for awhile, becasue of some of the post she has on it. Anyone with good advice help me on this? I would highly appreciate it. Link to post Share on other sites
Blurple Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 When she helped me start school she asked us at the end this " so what are yo gus doing this weekend?" that doesn't mean anything.. The more you talk to her the more you know her as a person. the more you know her personality the more you will find out if she likes you. Just talk to her. Make conversation, maybe she likes you maybe she likes to talk a lot figure it out BY TALKING TO HER Link to post Share on other sites
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