Lostguy33 Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 Well, I don't really know why, but my mom constantly gets mad at me for no reason. She always takes her anger out on me whenever my dad is brought up(they're divorced). It gets me very mad and stressed out when this happens because in her mind nothing is her fault and its ALWAYS mine. I try to ask her what I've done wrong and she says things that I never even acted like or did. She also has no social life and never really goes out, so my social life gets damaged because of her always wanting me around her. I want to go out and hang with my friends, but because of her, I barely can. Help please. Link to post Share on other sites
gman0hsev Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 First off you need to tell her that it is unfair to take out her problems on you. and what was the reason for the divorce if you don't mind me prying? Because that could be(actually most likely is) the problem. Tell her that the way she is treating you makes you unhappy and try to seek family counseling cause eventually you will just get angrier and angrier. Link to post Share on other sites
redfathom Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 I had to say, gmanohsev, love the avatar, I love Bleach! Also, to the OP, yeah..you need to talk to her about it, you should be able to be honet with your mom about your feelings and she needs to respect them. Link to post Share on other sites
Sean0775 Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 Try cutting her out of your life for a month or so. Chances are the thought of not seeing you for the next 20 years might strike a chord in her. Link to post Share on other sites
Sarita12385 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Your not you're dad. Period. Have her be angry at him (if he is in fact the problem), not you. Ask her to look into a hobby. Have any pets? If not, get one, that'll keep her busy. Get her involved w/a bowling league or something. Link to post Share on other sites
loyalfriend Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 Is this divorce still a fresh wound? If so, she is probably still grieving, and you shouldn't blame her for being so irritable at the name of the man that may have hurt her. Why did they get a divorce? Link to post Share on other sites
Jasmine8719 Posted December 12, 2007 Share Posted December 12, 2007 I know EXACTLY how you feel...My mom does the same thing. She constantly blames EVERYTHING on me as well. Thats actually why I came to this part of the site today..It does feel good to know that I am not the only one. My mom and I got a divorce when I was about 7 (I'll be 20 in 2 days) She has bad authrites(spell??)(affects the joints) and she constantly blames me for HER not being able to get a job. And that I just basically ruined her life..I have been nothing but the best daughter ever..I dont drink,smoke, or do any drugs AT All...She thinks I dont spend enough time with her I guess...But I work full time and go to school full time..She doesn't have a social life either...and I feel like I'm being held back because of my mom...anyways I'm trying to find advice as well, so I really can't give you much advice...but If you know that your living your life the right way and not doing anything wrong (as hard as it sounds) you HAVE to block out the negativity your mom is feeding toward you..or else you just go down the same road...Good Luck! Link to post Share on other sites
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