Crystal Michelle Posted October 21, 2007 Share Posted October 21, 2007 I hate to make another post but I want everyone to read my update! It's true that he cheated me. Two nights ago he broke it off. I made sure he did it so he could admit to cheating on me but I knew he did anyways and ya'll was right! He told me he screwed his co-worker Mandy 3 weeks ago while we were still together. When he called me to let me if we are still together he had the never to let her tell me in the background saying this is Mandy and he's with me and he's going to be a daddy! I just blew up and he hung up on me. He called back a minute later and said are you through yelling? I said through yelling?! I had every right to yell! I said when you just found out the one person you truly love just said that you DID cheat on me, you are not going to expect that person to get upset and start screaming and yelling?! I said how in the heck did you get her pregnant when you couldn't even get me pregnant? He told me with his other girlfriend's he couldn't get them pregnant so I do not believe it one bit unless he lied about he other girlfriends. I said she prolly screwed someone else before she got with you! I told him I knew, I KNEW something was going on. He said that what did you expect? He said that he had these thoughts, feelings and doubts for over a year. I said then why in the heck did you keep on kissing me, touching me, having sex with and even put an engagement ring on layway for me? I said when you lose feelings for someone like that you do NOT do stuff like that! He couldn't say a word! Then we started fighting about the bills he left me. He said he will pay for them I said don't even bother because I know I will not see a dime! Then he started saying that how in the heck am I suppose to pay all of them when I just sit at home and not looking for a job? I told him how in the heck could I look? He always had MY car working from 7am till 11pm every night even on his days off and he brung in $700 and couldn't pay the bills? I said even if I did get a job I would not of had a way to get there and said you would not change your schedule so I could work! So now I have an overdue water bill that's $90 and a power bill that is $350 and it was due last month. When I get it in this month I know it's going to be over $700 and I am going to hit the floor when it comes in. I yelled and screamed saying there is NO way my parents can help out and when everything gets cut off I'm going to have to live with them until I can figure something out! I asked him you KNOW how hard it is finding a job in this small town! It took him 3 months to get the one he has now and we looked everywhere and only one called back! But guys, I am getting him back! He has 2 warrants in Huntsville, AL and my mom has done called on that and they do want him. So they told her to call the Hamilton, AL (that is where he is living at) police and let them know. She told them we do not know where he lives but told him where he works at and they are going to do something about it. Before he moved out I found out he had child pornography downloaded on his computer and I confronted him about it. He had a VERY good story behind that. He said he did that so it would drive me away. I said that is BS! He doesn't know that I know he has a little black case with all kinds of porno pics in it and he has some young girls that he marked 15 yr old, 16 yrs, etc. And he doesn't know that I know he would send webcam pics of his private parts to under aged girls on his Yahoo! messenger! So my mom and I went to the Guin Police (Guin is where he use to live with me) and told them about the child porn. I told them I installed a pc spy software that shows everything he did on his computer and it was sent to me in email. They told me to print out what I have and write down what I know and give it to them and I did that. I them even if he does delete everything off his computer you can get someone to go into the hard drive and retrieve the data or you can get his IP address (and I wrote that down to) and told them you can get a hold of the internet place and it will show everything he did before he moved out! JB, one of our good friends and police officer) said he will get an investigator on it right away. This is good, ole sweet revenge and he deserves it after what he did to me! I didn't tell him what I was going to do and he told me after a while he is moving back to Huntsville. I was thinking you're going back to Huntsville alright. Link to post Share on other sites
blackdood Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 you know am still relatively young but ive heard the quote "hell hath no rival than a womans fury" or something i think thats how it goes...but damn this is a prime example of why you should never piss of a woman... good luck with everything Link to post Share on other sites
DazedandConfused66 Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 So let me get this straight.... You were in a relationship with someone who you KNEW was participating in illegal porn and a possible pedophile, but you didn't think to say anything about it until AFTER he pissed you off by having an affair? Wow....I'd be afraid of karma if I were you. Link to post Share on other sites
Amiss Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 I kind of agree. How could you stay with a man who sent/received porn pics from underage girls? He sounds like a scumbag but only reporting him AFTER the relatioship ends sounds seriously screwed up Link to post Share on other sites
Author Crystal Michelle Posted October 22, 2007 Author Share Posted October 22, 2007 Throughout our relationship I never found anything like that until like a night or two before he moved out. Link to post Share on other sites
DazedandConfused66 Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 Before he moved out I found out he had child pornography downloaded on his computer and I confronted him about it. He had a VERY good story behind that. He said he did that so it would drive me away. I said that is BS! He doesn't know that I know he has a little black case with all kinds of porno pics in it and he has some young girls that he marked 15 yr old, 16 yrs, etc. And he doesn't know that I know he would send webcam pics of his private parts to under aged girls on his Yahoo! messenger! So he did ALLLLLLL of this just 48 hours before moving out, huh? Must have been busy. You'd better be careful with your vengeance play here or you'll find yourself being cross-examined as having knowledge of criminal acts well before the breakup. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Crystal Michelle Posted October 22, 2007 Author Share Posted October 22, 2007 I guess so. Like I said I checked a night or two before so he could have been doing it longer before that. After I checked his computer prior to that I did not look anymore because I was convinced he wasn't cheating on me. Then things started up again and I checked again and was like omg! If I would have found this sick stuff on his computer months ago it would have been over right then and there! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Crystal Michelle Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 You'd better be careful with your vengeance play here or you'll find yourself being cross-examined as having knowledge of criminal acts well before the breakup. ME?! CRIMINAL ACTS?! I guess you're saying I KNEW all this time about his F***KING warrants too, huh? I'm going through enough S**T as it is with all the bills he left me for YOU to say I'm setting him up! You think I would take a chance at something like this to mess up MY good record that DOES NOT have a single thing on it? If I knew that YOU was downloading this crap I would turn your ass in as well! I DO NOT GIVE A S**T IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE ME! I SAW WHAT I F***ING SAW! AND IT WAS SICK! Because of you I'm not coming to this board anymore or recommend anyone to come here! Link to post Share on other sites
DazedandConfused66 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 I guess so. Like I said I checked a night or two before so he could have been doing it longer before that. After I checked his computer prior to that I did not look anymore because I was convinced he wasn't cheating on me. Then things started up again and I checked again and was like omg! If I would have found this sick stuff on his computer months ago it would have been over right then and there! And the little secret black case and the Yahoo IM's....you saw both of these on his computer as well, just 24-48 hours before he moved out huh? Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 What a loser. He doesn't sound very cool either. Link to post Share on other sites
DazedandConfused66 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 ME?! CRIMINAL ACTS?! I guess you're saying I KNEW all this time about his F***KING warrants too, huh? I've no idea...you said that your "mom has done called" on the warrants so somebody must've known about them prior to the breakup, unless you just decided to do some dirt surfing after he left. What I AM saying is that it doesn't matter if it was 24 hours before he left or 24 months before he left when you first discovered he had pictures of underage girls and was exposing himself to them online. That's a pedophile. And you had an obligation to turn his ass in IMMEDIATELY upon discovery. That's a crime. EVEN in Alabama. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 I feel like I've stepped onto the set of the Jerry Springer show... Link to post Share on other sites
zilverenvlinder Posted October 30, 2007 Share Posted October 30, 2007 Crystal, do whatever you can to get that cheating piece of crap behind some iron bars. When I read your first post, I knew something bad was going to come out of it. Me knowing from personal experience. Whatever you do, never take him back. You will never forgive him and it will eat away at you forever. Link to post Share on other sites
ICallsEmAsISeesEm Posted October 31, 2007 Share Posted October 31, 2007 I feel like I've stepped onto the set of the Jerry Springer show...ROFL!! Shadow, that's EXACTLY what I was thinking as well. Me smells a troll. Link to post Share on other sites
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