tennis27 Posted October 22, 2007 Share Posted October 22, 2007 So here it is, i noticed a new girl at work recently, she has been there for a few weeks now, and when i see her we make eye contact and she smiles, and seems interested, but im not sure if shes just a nice girl and in a work environment is polite and acknowledges everyone...and i might only see her once a day or not even so its hard to observe her. anyways i was standing in the hallway and she walked by on her way into work she was like 10+ feet away and she smiled looked right at me and gave me a big "good morning" i was caught of guard so my dumb self said "heeey" kind of quietly anyways im wondering if shes interested? should i talk to her? wait it out a little more and smile and say hi when i see her and wait for the right moment...or just go for it? let me know.....thanks or maybe someone can give me the tell tale signs that a girl is interested? I usually go with the eye contact and a smile as her saying "hi im interested" mabye im wrong.... Link to post Share on other sites
Blue Eyed Brain Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Okay. Here's my opinion: You like her, but she doesn't know that. (Most men see attractive women before women see men). You have to show her that you like her, that you are singling her out. Women want to be adored and put as high on a pedestal (away from everyone else) as possible. This comes from fathers' little girl and the attention her brothers, fathers and grandfathers gave her. Casually approach her at her desk and ask for directions to something, some type of office supply or where the next meeting is (anything that would start an interaction). Watch her eyes. Do this a few times a week and after that week let us know what she says and especially watch her body language. Most important: Be yourself (why would you want any woman interested in a phony you - that's not what you are after). It's better that she sees you for who you are than who you think she wants you to be. Link to post Share on other sites
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