Reading the Signals

[Providence]

Hey guys, I'm having a bit of a predicament, and i was hoping that someone here would be able to help me solve it, and if you do you will have no idea how much I will appreciate it. Because I am getting a stomach ache trying to find out the answer myself.

 

Well here goes. I am a senior in high school and there is this girl I like. She is really hard to read because she acts kinda funny. Now let me explain how this all got started. At first I liked her, but casually, ya know, just enough to act like an ******* and wait for her to ask me out.

 

The third day of school I walk into the class I have her. Bear with me because i don't remember all of this, but I do remember her saying that she wanted to sit next to me. But I acting like the total idiot/shy idiot that I am, says; "oh crap". And she stays there staring at me with her eyes fixed on me, I'm guessing to irritate me. But she then decides she wants to sit across from my left, and on her right is one of her close guy friends.

 

I had still been acting like an idiot a month later (bear with me I am very shy, and have only had one previous girlfriend) until she said playing around, and smiling a bit too but in an evil cute way, " (She said my name but am too afraid to say it in case she reads this ever, don't know if she ever will but hey u never know) I am very good to you but you keep acting bad (don't remember all of it.) so stop it or I will kill you".

Sorry If i have bored you at this point.

 

Well recently I have seen some signals, for example, when her guy friend was absent. She sat in his desk facing mine, and was doing her hw on my desk, and even asked me to help her out. She also likes it when I push her up the stairs, and once when I didnt do it she said youre suppose to push me up the stairs and so I did. And then before I left class the other day she stuck her tounge out at me because she had taken some things from me and i had to tickle her to get them back, then she told me in a cute way, "No fair you tickled me", with her head a bit down in a weird but cute way.

 

Some things that do throw me off are when she doesnt talk to me, or when she sits in front of my friends desk facing me sometimes, although she doesnt talk much to my two friends that sit next to me, even though she knows one of them since before she knew me. She has even taken out her phone and talked about how its plan but never gave her number. which is really worrying me. And shes even said I like his phone a lot (2 months ago) but never asked me for my number. Worries me even more. Should I have reason too? Oh yeah and it also worries me that when shes with her friends she doesnt say hi, but i caught her glancing at me when she was walking with one of her friends.

 

Now I dont know if she likes me or if shes doing this because I used to be an ahole, but i want to get something clear I wasnt a total ahole, I did act gentleman like, but I put on that funny act just when she seemed playful, and because shes cool and she seems to take that type of stuff.

 

She is a bit loud, and at all not shy. If that helps. Oh yeah and sometimes she holds my hand, or stares at me smiling, idk if she thinks she irritates me or if she means it. Plus I have even complimented her and she just smiles, and she even caught me checking her out, and she smiled too. Man girls are confusing.

 

IF you guys have any questions so you can help me out feel free to shoot away. Because my head is about to explode. Ty in advanced if you take the time to read this.

[Providence]

Anyone have any tips before I go to sleep?

[IrishCarBomb]

Here's some general women advice: Don't overthink, just do.

 

Women will confuse the hell out of you if you let them. Just don't give it a second thought.

 

Make up your own mind without thinking too much about what's on her mind. Sure, you may get flat out rejected and humiliated... but that's part of what chasing women is all about.