loveydovey82 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 This is really unusual for me. I'm falling for this guy in my class. The only problem is the girl that sits between us. He asked me to be his study buddy...out of the blue really. I didn't really speak to him before the past two weeks. Then he just up and asked me. I said ok. (This was also the first time he found out my name.) Then we invited a few other classmates who he knows better than me b/c they had previous classes together. We met for study group but it was just me and him. He never told anyone I guess. We didn't get any work done. So we went for coffee and just talked. He has a great sense of humor. We talked well. We are the same age (mid-twenties). He is good looking, as am I. (Not to toot my own horn but, beep beep!) I'm so surprised that I hadn't noticed him previously! Anyhoo! The problem lies in the girl that sits between us. She completely dislikes me. I'm just going to kill her with kindness! I know she likes the guy. I guess I'm just peeved that she exists. She is the kind of girl who airs her dirty laundry in the first 2 minutes of knowing her. I've heard all about her ex-bf's and their drug habits. I know all about her family. Yaddah...Yaddah... Much too much for the classroom environment. She also acts too weird. Do you know what I mean? She tries to be too eccentric. She plays the strange nerd girl card too often and too forcefully. I'm not like that. I'm just chill. I'm kinda freaking out now b/c I like this guy! ARGH! I must keep my composure. The guy and her talk all through our break, but I think that is b/c she sits behind me and between me and the guy. I usually do my work and keep to myself and a few other nerdy friends. I never interject in their conversations. When she isn't there, he talks to me. We like the same movies, obscure bands, and crack the same jokes. (((I really hate to say it, but I am way hotter than her too. I sound like a total b*&%$ but most chicks can dig where I am coming from. We size each other up all the time. This is a no brainer for me.))) I guess I just needed to vent a little bit. Thanks for listening. Any advice would be appreciated... (((Can you believe I am in my mid-twenties and sweating a guy in one of my classes?))):love::bunny: Advice and words of wisdom will be appreciated! thanks xoxox Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 This is really unusual for me. I'm falling for this guy in my class. The only problem is the girl that sits between us. He asked me to be his study buddy...out of the blue really. I didn't really speak to him before the past two weeks. Then he just up and asked me. I said ok. (This was also the first time he found out my name.) Then we invited a few other classmates who he knows better than me b/c they had previous classes together. We met for study group but it was just me and him. He never told anyone I guess. We didn't get any work done. So we went for coffee and just talked. He has a great sense of humor. We talked well. We are the same age (mid-twenties). He is good looking, as am I. (Not to toot my own horn but, beep beep!) I'm so surprised that I hadn't noticed him previously! Anyhoo! The problem lies in the girl that sits between us. She completely dislikes me. I'm just going to kill her with kindness! I know she likes the guy. I guess I'm just peeved that she exists. She is the kind of girl who airs her dirty laundry in the first 2 minutes of knowing her. I've heard all about her ex-bf's and their drug habits. I know all about her family. Yaddah...Yaddah... Much too much for the classroom environment. She also acts too weird. Do you know what I mean? She tries to be too eccentric. She plays the strange nerd girl card too often and too forcefully. I'm not like that. I'm just chill. I'm kinda freaking out now b/c I like this guy! ARGH! I must keep my composure. The guy and her talk all through our break, but I think that is b/c she sits behind me and between me and the guy. I usually do my work and keep to myself and a few other nerdy friends. I never interject in their conversations. When she isn't there, he talks to me. We like the same movies, obscure bands, and crack the same jokes. (((I really hate to say it, but I am way hotter than her too. I sound like a total b*&%$ but most chicks can dig where I am coming from. We size each other up all the time. This is a no brainer for me.))) I guess I just needed to vent a little bit. Thanks for listening. Any advice would be appreciated... (((Can you believe I am in my mid-twenties and sweating a guy in one of my classes?))):love::bunny: Advice and words of wisdom will be appreciated! thanks xoxox What's important here is how he's feelin' her (or not as the case may be). If he doesn't really talk to her (aside from necessity), what is the problem? Continue with your "study sessions" and see where it goes. From what you've written pseud-nerddeepgirl has nothing on you. She hasn't made any major headway with the guy. So keep doing your thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveydovey82 Posted October 23, 2007 Author Share Posted October 23, 2007 In all honesty, I hope it works out for her if it turns out to be that way. But I really want it to be me this time. I feel like it is my turn to have a guy I'm totally crushing on be into me! Ya Know! Thanks Ocean-blue Link to post Share on other sites
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