CJ77 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 So after my ex tells me how he thinks what the hell was he thinking to lose me and how sometimes he could kick himself last night i confronted him on what his purpose was for saying those things to me when he does nothing to get me back....so he said what do you mean..so i say well lets say i dumped u and for the whole 5 mtnhs that wehave been broken apart i act like im gettin on with my life not even missing you and then i come out with this...so he says well u never seemed like u wanted me back while we were apart...so i said well i would never give u the satisfaction and i explained how when we dated he had me out to be the best thing ever and then he let something so dumb break us apart and i was like a nothing to him...he then got snotty and said well what did u expect after a break up for me to come up to u , give u a hug and tell you your the best thing ever...i then got mad and said stuff back and he told me how he wasnt overly depressed over the split but he does mean when he says he can kick himself and then he said how about one night soon we'll hang out and clarify things..i said why would we do that and he says god im just trying to be nice...so with that i said dont do things just to be nice, do them bc its what u want not what u think i want...so he said well lets finish this talk another time and said no wont be neccassary and i told him that wish for us to NEVER speak of this or our breakup again bc its not fair to me and that was that so ive concluded this guy is a total coward, and definately not who i thought he was...bc the guy i dated and used to know didnt play these head games...i dont think i ever knew who he was and come to think of it....i dont want a guy who isnt overly depressed when im not around bc obviosuly i really am not as special to him as he had me out to be when we dated Link to post Share on other sites
heartoutside Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 I think I read this on here or somewhere, but during a break up is when you see the true person, for who they really are and what they stand for. My ex right now has no clue what kind of damage she's creating around her, (she's starting to loose our mutual friends) and I'm seeing a side of her I never thought I would see. Link to post Share on other sites
Author CJ77 Posted October 24, 2007 Author Share Posted October 24, 2007 ya i definately believe that is the case....It just amazes me though how a person could hide that much of who they are...unless it is there but those of us that are in the relationship with that person are blinded....but all i know is that this guy is not taking me on anymore emotional roller coasters its time i let it go and move on.. Link to post Share on other sites
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