Did Your MM Put His W Down?

[troutie jr]

Believe it or not' date=' itcan be incredibly hard in a marriage to tell your spouse that you want to stop getting rug burn every time you have intercourse, no offense to MM's W intended. It would really hurt your partner's feelings and it may be a while before you get the opportunity to risk that *injury* in the future.[/quote']

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao:

 

Yeah or diaper rash.

[reboot]

Yet another originally interesting thread bites the dust.

[troutie jr]

Yes, I see it as well. A hair pick would make a "boundary" in it a lot easier than a regular comb would.

 

Or a tooth pick :lmao::lmao:

 

Seems to be something stuck in my teeth

[Tomcat33]

OpenBook please share your story after you finish laughing.

 

For what its worth, some people don't shave that *area* for medical reasons. Mind you, that doesn't mean it can't be clipped/trimmed down with scissors.

 

Believe it or not, itcan be incredibly hard in a marriage to tell your spouse that you want to stop getting rug burn every time you have intercourse, no offense to MM's W intended. It would really hurt your partner's feelings and it may be a while before you get the opportunity to risk that *injury* in the future.

 

I am finding it interesting the things that MM share about their W's with the OW.

 

Medical reasons!?!? Exactly what medical reason impedes you from keeping the area nice and trim and clean. In fact an unrully area is more of a health hazzard than no hair at all, think about all the stuff a man finds in there when it has not been trimmed in years.

 

"Ohhhhh so THAT'S where my brown snake shoe ended up, I've been looking for that damned thing forever now...and there's my paisley tie"

[troutie jr]

Medical reasons!?!? Exactly what medical reason impedes you from keeping the area nice and trim and clean. In fact an unrully area is more of a health hazzard than no hair at all, think about all the stuff a man finds in there when it has not been trimmed in years.

 

"Ohhhhh so THAT'S where my brown snake shoe ended up, I've been looking for that damned thing forever now...and there's my paisley tie"

 

Gee would you look at that! I found the cutlery :lmao:

[OpenBook]

"Ohhhhh so THAT'S where my brown snake shoe ended up, I've been looking for that damned thing forever now...and there's my paisley tie"

 

Didn't paisley ties go out of style in, like, the 70's???!?:lmao: Groovy baby!!

[greengoddess]

Oh I see so when your husband tells you that dress doesn't make you look fat you would prefer he were honest with you?

 

C'mon you can appreciate a white lie you know you can!

 

Of course I would expect him to be honest. I would hate the thought of going out with him for the evening with something on he found distasteful. Why would I ever want him to lie to me about my appearance?

 

I don't tell white lies to my kids either. Like the people on american idol who think they can sing and are awful. obviously their loved ones lied to them that they had a good voice. My kids know they have zero rhythm and have awful singing voice. I don't believe in whitewashing the truth to people you LOVE. Strangers yes but not people you love. They need the truth.

[GreenEyedLady]

I am finding it interesting the things that MM share about their W's with the OW.

 

It is interesting, isn't it?

 

Most of what I know, I learned in the recent past and because I just wanted to know...

 

I wanted to know what she was like, because at this point, we've been together for so long, and the way we are together, he just doesn't seem married in anything other than name...And I wondered if we were alike in some ways and what type of woman he would marry...

 

Just curiosity, I guess...He was open to it and he actually asked me to ask him what I wanted to know...He never talked bad about her...But he is not the type of man who would...

[Tomcat33]

Of course I would expect him to be honest. I would hate the thought of going out with him for the evening with something on he found distasteful. Why would I ever want him to lie to me about my appearance?

 

I don't tell white lies to my kids either. Like the people on american idol who think they can sing and are awful. obviously their loved ones lied to them that they had a good voice. My kids know they have zero rhythm and have awful singing voice. I don't believe in whitewashing the truth to people you LOVE. Strangers yes but not people you love. They need the truth.

 

 

Oh ok so when he tells you you look fat you are ok with that. Ok I respect that.

 

 

I never wanna look fat or ugly for my partner which is why I refuse to let myself go, I suppose I can't handle the truth like some of you can.

[Lizzie60]

I don't remember any of them talking against their W... in fact, most of them say they have beautiful wives... good mothers, etc. the main complaint is the sex... not enough or extremely conventional boring sex, I'd say 98% it's about sex.

 

One of them never talks about his wife... he only talks about his kids...he just feels uncomfortable I guess.... this other one says he has a good sex life, she's his best friend... she has a very high end job... etc. so I'm not sure why he's straying... LOL

[greengoddess]

Oh ok so when he tells you you look fat you are ok with that. Ok I respect that.

 

 

I never wanna look fat or ugly for my partner which is why I refuse to let myself go, I suppose I can't handle the truth like some of you can.

 

Wow nice jump there. No he would never have the reason to tell me I look fat. It's not something I ever fear but I would want the truth if I bought an outfit he hated or a haircolor or cut he disliked. I don't want to be told I'm beautiful because it's expected.

 

Oh and if it makes you feel better to think that women who have an aversion to infidelity are fat then good for you. One of your I'm surperior things i suppose.

 

Again I don't believe in telling white lies to loved ones. So do you lie to your girlfriends when you clothing shop together and tell her she looks great in something hideous on her? I cetainly hope not. I can't imagine living my life telling white lies to those I love.

[NoIDidn't]

Medical reasons!?!? Exactly what medical reason impedes you from keeping the area nice and trim and clean. In fact an unrully area is more of a health hazzard than no hair at all, think about all the stuff a man finds in there when it has not been trimmed in years.

 

There are lots of dermatological illnesses that contraindicate shaving the body's pubic and underarm areas. That's why I said it could be trimmed with scissors. Hidradenitis suppurativa (I hope I spelled that right) is one. It causes really big boils to form in shaved areas that rupture and cause scarring and don't heal well, risking the possibility of major infections.

 

And, an unruly area is not more of a health hazard that no hair at all, unless a person suffers from body lice a lot. Its not like pubic hair grows like hair on your head. It seems to know when to stop growing.

 

Believe it or not, there are good reasons not to shave. I do wonder if laser hair removal is an option with some of them, though.

[troutie jr]

Wow nice jump there. No he would never have the reason to tell me I look fat. It's not something I ever fear but I would want the truth if I bought an outfit he hated or a haircolor or cut he disliked. I don't want to be told I'm beautiful because it's expected.

 

Oh and if it makes you feel better to think that women who have an aversion to infidelity are fat then good for you. One of your I'm surperior things i suppose.

 

Again I don't believe in telling white lies to loved ones. So do you lie to your girlfriends when you clothing shop together and tell her she looks great in something hideous on her? I cetainly hope not. I can't imagine living my life telling white lies to those I love.

 

You just posted a few threads ago that YOU would lie to friends.

 

Why are you turning this around on TC?

[Tomcat33]

Oh I just remembered another thing that came out inadvertently, there was something sexual that he would ask of me for that I wasn't into at all and his W was complying. Apparently she wasn't all that into it but she did it for him. I had no interest in it.

It appears she was more complying with him sexually I can be really bitchy about that stuff when I wanna be.

 

He used to tell me it turned him on that I would refuse him, he loved the challenge and once in the heat of passion told me he secretly hoped I would always say no. I brought it up the next day and he denied saying that LOL. It was really funny actually.

Funny how guys minds work.

 

I don't do $hit for anyone, if I am not feeling it I'm not doing it. Maybe that's why he felt sorry for his W because she would bend over backwards for him.

[OpenBook]

I don't remember any of them talking against their W... in fact, most of them say they have beautiful wives... good mothers, etc. the main complaint is the sex... not enough or extremely conventional boring sex, I'd say 98% it's about sex.

 

One of them never talks about his wife... he only talks about his kids...he just feels uncomfortable I guess.... this other one says he has a good sex life, she's his best friend... she has a very high end job... etc. so I'm not sure why he's straying... LOL

 

I take it from your new moniker that you have just been blessed with the grandchild you were anticipating...? If so, Congratulations Grandmama!! :)

[troutie jr]

There are lots of dermatological illnesses that contraindicate shaving the body's pubic and underarm areas. That's why I said it could be trimmed with scissors. Hidradenitis suppurativa (I hope I spelled that right) is one. It causes really big boils to form in shaved areas that rupture and cause scarring and don't heal well' date=' risking the possibility of major infections.[/quote']

 

Interesting. I waxed once and I won't do it again. No boils and such but it was like diaper rash. No kidding.

[Lizzie60]

I take it from your new moniker that you have just been blessed with the grandchild you were anticipating...? If so, Congratulations Grandmama!! :)

 

No.. not yet.. another 2-3 weeks... I'm just 'warming' up...

[troutie jr]

Oh I just remembered another thing that came out inadvertently, there was something sexual that he would ask of me for that I wasn't into at all and his W was complying. Apparently she wasn't all that into it but she did it for him. I had no interest in it.

It appears she was more complying with him sexually I can be really bitchy about that stuff when I wanna be.

 

He used to tell me it turned him on that I would refuse him, he loved the challenge and once in the heat of passion told me he secretly hoped I would always say no. I brought it up the next day and he denied saying that LOL. It was really funny actually.

Funny how guys minds work.

 

I don't do $hit for anyone, if I am not feeling it I'm not doing it. Maybe that's why he felt sorry for his W because she would bend over backwards for him.

 

Would this be anal sex? That's one cherry going to heaven.

[Tomcat33]

There are lots of dermatological illnesses that contraindicate shaving the body's pubic and underarm areas. That's why I said it could be trimmed with scissors. Hidradenitis suppurativa (I hope I spelled that right) is one. It causes really big boils to form in shaved areas that rupture and cause scarring and don't heal well, risking the possibility of major infections.

 

And, an unruly area is not more of a health hazard that no hair at all, unless a person suffers from body lice a lot. Its not like pubic hair grows like hair on your head. It seems to know when to stop growing.

 

Believe it or not, there are good reasons not to shave. I do wonder if laser hair removal is an option with some of them, though.

 

 

Well no I know that I would never recommend shaving either. Waxing is the way to go ALWAYS for all parts of the body.

 

But the thing is that no hair is cleaner, there is nowhere for stuff to cling to and it keeps areas odourless. I think it's just better all around...

 

Smell a hairy armpit vs a waxed one.

 

Though I don't mind the armpit of a man that smells manly that's HOT.

This topic is making me randy...

[greengoddess]

You just posted a few threads ago that YOU would lie to friends.

 

Why are you turning this around on TC?

 

No i said strangers for white lies, acquaintences not loved ones. I consider my close shopping friends loved ones. There is no reason to hurt a neighbors feelings by telling her the pink paint she picked for her shutters is ugly. No purpose in that.

 

If a loved one painted their house a color I found distastefull I might say eww do you like it? are you happy with it? I wouldn't lie and say I like something when I don't. If my husband brought home green slacks even though green is my favorite color I will probably tell him they are ugly.

I will not tell my kids they are artistic if they aren't. I will not tell them they played well in a sporting event if they had a bad game. Boundaries. Truth is for loved ones not white washed lies.

[Tomcat33]

No i said strangers for white lies, acquaintences not loved ones. I consider my close shopping friends loved ones. There is no reason to hurt a neighbors feelings by telling her the pink paint she picked for her shutters is ugly. No purpose in that.

 

If a loved one painted their house a color I found distastefull I might say eww do you like it? are you happy with it? I wouldn't lie and say I like something when I don't. If my husband brought home green slacks even though green is my favorite color I will probably tell him they are ugly.

I will not tell my kids they are artistic if they aren't. I will not tell them they played well in a sporting event if they had a bad game. Boundaries. Truth is for loved ones not white washed lies.

 

 

Interesting, so you are ok with lies for strangers but with loved ones it is brutal honesty all the time? So when your child brought one of their first drawings to you, you basically said to them "you can't draw worth **** kid, this drawing SUCKS!"

[greengoddess]

Interesting, so you are ok with lies for strangers but with loved ones it is brutal honesty all the time? So when your child brought one of their first drawings to you, you basically said to them "you can't draw worth **** kid, this drawing SUCKS!"

 

why would you lie to your children about their abilities? Do you want them believing they have good voices when they don't, are artistic when they aren't? And no of course I would not talk like that to a child. Age appropriate. My one child is artistic my other is not. They know this.

[greengoddess]

Oh I just remembered another thing that came out inadvertently, there was something sexual that he would ask of me for that I wasn't into at all and his W was complying. Apparently she wasn't all that into it but she did it for him. I had no interest in it.

It appears she was more complying with him sexually I can be really bitchy about that stuff when I wanna be.

 

He used to tell me it turned him on that I would refuse him, he loved the challenge and once in the heat of passion told me he secretly hoped I would always say no. I brought it up the next day and he denied saying that LOL. It was really funny actually.

Funny how guys minds work.

 

I don't do $hit for anyone, if I am not feeling it I'm not doing it. Maybe that's why he felt sorry for his W because she would bend over backwards for him.

 

well at least he didn't have to lie to you that he didn't have sex with his wife. He was happy to tell you how compliant she was in bed for him and you still chose to share him.

 

Funny you are saying he felt sorry for his wife because she bent over backward for him sexually.:laugh: I like that coming from the other woman.

[Tomcat33]

why would you lie to your children about their abilities? Do you want them believing they have good voices when they don't, are artistic when they aren't? And no of course I would not talk like that to a child. Age appropriate. My one child is artistic my other is not. They know this.

 

 

Do you mean that you would tell your 4 yr old child who is proud of the picture of mommy and daddy actually kid:

"that picture looks nothing like us so please come back to me when you can actually draw."

 

AS IF!!! you tell white lies just like the next guy?

[greengoddess]

Interesting, so you are ok with lies for strangers but with loved ones it is brutal honesty all the time? So when your child brought one of their first drawings to you, you basically said to them "you can't draw worth **** kid, this drawing SUCKS!"

 

oh and if you can't expect the truth about yourself from loved ones then who can you expect the truth from? I guess some are fine living with a world of lies. I expect more from those I love.