troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 It's his wife's crotch and he obviously married her that way. If he liked sex with a waxed woman instead of bitching to his fantasy girl maybe he should have suggested to his wife that it would be sexy to him if;it's called communication. Sounds like he didn't communicate his sexual desires with his wife at all. Very sad. Instead he made fun of her to you. wow what a man. Maybe he was a virgin when he married her or maybe he was less than experienced. Who knows? I don't only believe people who cheat clean up their "girls". I don't cheat, but I can tell you my "girl" is well kept. Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well then it's official whether a man has to do it for her or he finds it already done a manicured hedge is better than walking into an unrully woodland. :lmao: Oh Gosh Tom that's to funny!:lmao::lmao:. AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 NO I didn't at all and I hated every moment of knowing that. I made it very clear to him that certain things cannot be divulged, he should have known better. I remember I made him feel bad about it, I guess he thought he was sharing something with me that would make me happy I suppose in his weird way...but it didn't it made feel like I had intruded someone's very private space. Rightly so! Gives a whole new meaning to the word "Private" doesn't it!:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well I wanted to pass on my MM story to the OP, but I am sitting here CRYING I am laughing so hard -- I just can't get it done. Thanks for the giggles, "girls"!! :D:D Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I'm willing to bet she is well waxed now after the many conversations he's had to endure in his reconcilliation with her about your sex life. Well I don't know about that I hope he didn't share with her how good sex was between us it would only hurt her more. In fact I'm sure he downplays things he has to otherwise it would be too much tormenting for her. Its not fair to her. I hope he lies to her, just to spare her more pain. I really don't see the point in being honest about us. If he was honest I have nothing to loose we had a great sex life there is no shame in that at all. Amongst other things.... I remember there was a thread here once that asked OW to reflect on what they shared with their men because now all their secrets would be revealled to their Ws. Well I for one have NOTHING to hide, there is nothing he can say about me that would make her feel better which is why I am sure he has to lie to her, just to ensure she doesn't feel worse. So many BSs are so sure their Hs come clean with what really happened in the rel. and the truth of the matter is he can't it would only hurt them more to know the truth. So a white lie goes a long way. Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well I wanted to pass on my MM story to the OP, but I am sitting here CRYING I am laughing so hard -- I just can't get it done. Thanks for the giggles, "girls"!! :D:D Gosh! Me Too! Tears are pouring down my face:lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Gosh! Me Too! Tears are pouring down my face:lmao::lmao: see that's the difference in the thought process of an ow. I don't find this conversation at all humorous. I find it very, very sad. I also find it lacking in boundaries which is very telling of those who find it humorous and those who don't. It also says a lot about tomcats married man and what he apparently likes and him not communicating that with his wife. Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 a waxed woman Okay, now I hit the floor!:lmao::lmao: I've heard of kept woman but a waxed woman! ha..ha..ha Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 see that's the difference in the thought process of an ow. I don't find this conversation at all humorous. I find it very, very sad. I also find it lacking in boundaries which is very telling of those who find it humorous and those who don't. It also says a lot about tomcats married man and what he apparently likes and him not communicating that with his wife. Listen hunny, I'm not an OW or any of that sort. But this is one funny conversation. I have these with my friends! Lighten up! You just may turn your frown around. Link to post Share on other sites
Meaplus3 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well I don't know about that I hope he didn't share with her how good sex was between us it would only hurt her more. In fact I'm sure he downplays things he has to otherwise it would be too much tormenting for her. Its not fair to her. I hope he lies to her, just to spare her more pain. I really don't see the point in being honest about us. If he was honest I have nothing to loose we had a great sex life there is no shame in that at all. Amongst other things.... I remember there was a thread here once that asked OW to reflect on what they shared with their men because now all their secrets would be revealled to their Ws. Well I for one have NOTHING to hide, there is nothing he can say about me that would make her feel better which is why I am sure he has to lie to her, just to ensure she doesn't feel worse. So many BSs are so sure their Hs come clean with what really happened in the rel. and the truth of the matter is he can't it would only hurt them more to know the truth. So a white lie goes a long way. So many BSs are so sure their Hs come clean with what really happened in the rel. and the truth of the matter is he can't it would only hurt them more to know the truth. So a white lie goes a long way. So True Tom so True! AP:) Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well I'm glad you can all find the humour in my not so funny story... But heck it's good to laugh and escape every once in a while isn't it? I wonder if he wears a safari hat to bed now and carries a hatchet in a hoslter? ok last joke sorry I couldn't resist. Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well I don't know about that I hope he didn't share with her how good sex was between us it would only hurt her more. In fact I'm sure he downplays things he has to otherwise it would be too much tormenting for her. Its not fair to her. I hope he lies to her, just to spare her more pain. I really don't see the point in being honest about us. If he was honest I have nothing to loose we had a great sex life there is no shame in that at all. Amongst other things.... I remember there was a thread here once that asked OW to reflect on what they shared with their men because now all their secrets would be revealled to their Ws. Well I for one have NOTHING to hide, there is nothing he can say about me that would make her feel better which is why I am sure he has to lie to her, just to ensure she doesn't feel worse. So many BSs are so sure their Hs come clean with what really happened in the rel. and the truth of the matter is he can't it would only hurt them more to know the truth. So a white lie goes a long way. Tomcat that says a lot about you as a person that you would consider something this important between a husband and wife a white lie. Very interesting. Again I see the difference in boundaries and what is the right thing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well I'm glad you can all find the humour in my not so funny story... But heck it's good to laugh and escape every once in a while isn't it? I wonder if he wears a safari hat to bed now and carries a hatchet in a hoslter? ok last joke sorry I couldn't resist. :lmao::lmao::lmao: OR' me Jane, you Tarzan......lol Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 see that's the difference in the thought process of an ow. I don't find this conversation at all humorous. I find it very, very sad. I also find it lacking in boundaries which is very telling of those who find it humorous and those who don't. It also says a lot about tomcats married man and what he apparently likes and him not communicating that with his wife. Yeah it says he prefers a trimmed hedge over a bearded clam chowder.:lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Tomcat that says a lot about you as a person that you would consider something this important between a husband and wife a white lie. Very interesting. Again I see the difference in boundaries and what is the right thing to do. What would you expect TC to do.... Get on the phone and say "hello your H tells me you do not groom yourself" Would you? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Tomcat that says a lot about you as a person that you would consider something this important between a husband and wife a white lie. Very interesting. Again I see the difference in boundaries and what is the right thing to do. Hey look I am just trying to spare the poor woman more pain that's all it's bad enough she is trying to make a go with someone that not only doesn't respect her or their marriage, but who also keep lying to her behind her back. Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I've alway wondered if men who are sooo turned on by the whole brazilian wax look actually have a fantasy of young girls. No, it's just different...It has nothing to do with wanting to be with a young girl... I like brazillian and not hair... Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Listen hunny, I'm not an OW or any of that sort. But this is one funny conversation. I have these with my friends! Lighten up! You just may turn your frown around. :laugh:yes that's why you are a new poster who came right here. Another boundary issue recreate a new you. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 What would you expect TC to do.... Get on the phone and say "hello your H tells me you do not groom yourself" Would you? yeah maybe I can fed-ex her a Venus and some shaving foam signed "annonymous". Link to post Share on other sites
GreenEyedLady Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 What is wrong with a nice shower together and some shaving cream and a razor? Stubble? Razor burn? Wax is much smoother... Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 What would you expect TC to do.... Get on the phone and say "hello your H tells me you do not groom yourself" Would you? obviously not. I was commenting on her idea of what a white lie is and a relationship with another woman when you are married is not a white lie. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Again I see the difference in boundaries and what is the right thing to do. Yes, I see it as well. A hair pick would make a "boundary" in it a lot easier than a regular comb would. Link to post Share on other sites
Author NoIDidn't Posted October 24, 2007 Author Share Posted October 24, 2007 OpenBook please share your story after you finish laughing. For what its worth, some people don't shave that *area* for medical reasons. Mind you, that doesn't mean it can't be clipped/trimmed down with scissors. Believe it or not, itcan be incredibly hard in a marriage to tell your spouse that you want to stop getting rug burn every time you have intercourse, no offense to MM's W intended. It would really hurt your partner's feelings and it may be a while before you get the opportunity to risk that *injury* in the future. I am finding it interesting the things that MM share about their W's with the OW. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 obviously not. I was commenting on her idea of what a white lie is and a relationship with another woman when you are married is not a white lie. Oh I see so when your husband tells you that dress doesn't make you look fat you would prefer he were honest with you? C'mon you can appreciate a white lie you know you can! Link to post Share on other sites
troutie jr Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 :laugh:yes that's why you are a new poster who came right here. Another boundary issue recreate a new you. I've been everywhere man, travelled everywhere man...... Know the tune? Lighten up, or we'll douce you with some shaving cream:lmao::lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
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