Author NoIDidn't Posted October 24, 2007 Author Share Posted October 24, 2007 Well no I know that I would never recommend shaving either. Waxing is the way to go ALWAYS for all parts of the body. But the thing is that no hair is cleaner, there is nowhere for stuff to cling to and it keeps areas odourless. I think it's just better all around... Smell a hairy armpit vs a waxed one. Though I don't mind the armpit of a man that smells manly that's HOT. This topic is making me randy... Can't wax with many of the illnesses either. Its no different than shaving if the hair is going to grow back eventually. And especially since waxing means that the hair now has to grow from under/inside the skin again. The risk of razor bumps and boils is too big for people suffering from these illnesses. The main reason I bring up the medical thing, is because I have a friend who suffers from diabetes, kidney failure, and heart problems. People constantly talk about his scaley skin and rough feet behind his back. Its a symptom of the disease. A symptom that he can't do much about at this stage. So for me, its a "sickness and health, better or worse" deal. I thought I was the only one that liked the smell of a nice *manly* armpit. Not a nasty sweaty one that dripping wet, but one that just smells like him a few hours after doing something around the house/yard. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 well at least he didn't have to lie to you that he didn't have sex with his wife. He was happy to tell you how compliant she was in bed for him and you still chose to share him. Funny you are saying he felt sorry for his wife because she bent over backward for him sexually.:laugh: I like that coming from the other woman. that was before we were together while he was with me he had no time ot have sex with her he was with me all the time not sure what your point is. If you were quick, what you would understand from point is that you don't have to bend over backwards for another human being if you don't feel it, and if you are confident enough in your self you don't have to do anything for another human being that is over and above what you are willing to do. She bent over backwards for him sexually but he moved out to be with me anyway so I guess bending over backwards in bed didn't keep him from looking for love elsewhere. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 oh and if you can't expect the truth about yourself from loved ones then who can you expect the truth from? I guess some are fine living with a world of lies. I expect more from those I love. Well don't skirt around the point answer my question when your 4 yr old brings you a picture of you and daddy and says look mom here is you and daddy do you say "that scribble looks nothing like mommy and daddy go away kid and come back when you can draw" that's being honest. Is that how you parent your children? Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I thought I was the only one that liked the smell of a nice *manly* armpit. Not a nasty sweaty one that dripping wet' date=' but one that just smells like him a few hours after doing something around the house/yard.[/quote'] Well then I guess that makes two, because I LOVE that yum!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 The main reason I bring up the medical thing, is because I have a friend who suffers from diabetes, kidney failure, and heart problems. People constantly talk about his scaley skin and rough feet behind his back. Its a symptom of the disease. A symptom that he can't do much about at this stage. So for me, its a "sickness and health, better or worse" deal. Woops I missed this last night, with all the different conversations going on here... Well yes of course caring after any disease takes priority first, the least of their worries would be something like waxing a pubic area. I see what you are saying now. In the case of my ex's W though, that I know of, she had nothing of the kind. It just appears she had an accute case of unkep vajayjay syndrome....and she was a young 31 yrs of age. tisk tisk!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 It just appears she had an accute case of unkep vajayjay syndrome....and she was a young 31 yrs of age. tisk tisk!!! LMSAO! Vajayjay... I haven't heard that in a lonnnggg time!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Do you mean that you would tell your 4 yr old child who is proud of the picture of mommy and daddy actually kid: "that picture looks nothing like us so please come back to me when you can actually draw." AS IF!!! you tell white lies just like the next guy? A four year old can not make a bad drawing. Age appropriate but yes at 4 and coloring if my kid came up and showed me a colored picture all out of lines and scribbled in all one color and said isn't tis great I would say no. You are supposed to try to stay in the lines better. Kids are smart. They know if you are lying. They know their ability compared to other kids and will know if you are lying to make them feel good. Yes I tell white lies but again NOT to my loved ones. Again if someone who loves you can't tell you the truth then who can? Love doesn't lie. Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 In the case of my ex's W though, that I know of, she had nothing of the kind. It just appears she had an accute case of unkep vajayjay syndrome....and she was a young 31 yrs of age. tisk tisk!!! Here's those boundaries again. I would never make fun of or judge someone who chose to keep their vagina in its natural state. Yes I am an adult. I am comfortable with the word vagina and have no need to name it cutesy little words like it's a toy. Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Yes I tell white lies but again NOT to my loved ones. Again if someone who loves you can't tell you the truth then who can? Love doesn't lie. I don't know... Cheating MM's don't seem to have any problem lying their @sses off to both sides of the fence. Ain't love grand. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 . yes at 4 and coloring if my kid came up and showed me a colored picture all out of lines and scribbled in all one color and said isn't tis great I would say no. . That doesn't surprise me ONE bit. It was rhetorical question for you GG, I knew youranswer before you spelled it out. Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I don't know... Cheating MM's don't seem to have any problem lying their @sses off to both sides of the fence. Ain't love grand. Cheating married men only love themselves. That's what the ow doesn't seem to get. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Here's those boundaries again. I would never make fun of or judge someone who chose to keep their vagina in its natural state. Yes I am an adult. I am comfortable with the word vagina and have no need to name it cutesy little words like it's a toy. Why do you get so bent out of shape about this? :laugh: I am talking about another woman's vajayjay not yours. Or am I inadevertendtly?!?!? VAJAYJAY is a magnificnet word that I am trying to reclaim! Now repeat after me: ""Long live the kept VAJYAJAY, hurrahhhh!" Link to post Share on other sites
OpenBook Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Cheating married men only love themselves. That's what the ow doesn't seem to get. And what the BS DOES get -- him. The guy who only loves himself. Have fun with that!! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 would never make fun of or judge someone who chose to keep their vagina in its natural state Also babies sit in their own poop in their "natural state" I certainly hope that we all grew out of that one! Unkept vajayjays are just a turn off let's face it. NO man should be subjected to that IMO Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 And what the BS DOES get -- him. The guy who only loves himself. Have fun with that!! I think many bs's do not keep a cheating spouse. Very few do if the cheating continues. Those that do have a man who continually works to love his spouse and realizes his behavior. Some do stay with the man who only loves himself unknowingly because the ow actually agrees to continue the affair even farther underground after caught as the bs is in the dark. I'll never understand how after a dday an ow can agree to further hide. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Why do you get so bent out of shape about this? :laugh: I am talking about another woman's vajayjay not yours. Or am I inadevertendtly?!?!? VAJAYJAY is a magnificnet word that I am trying to reclaim! Now repeat after me: ""Long live the kept VAJYAJAY, hurrahhhh!" It's funny how some people get so effected by names... TC, you crack me up! Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I I'll never understand how after a dday an ow can agree to further hide. People do crazy things out of desperation ask a BS why she kept a cheater and though she will never admit the answer is desperation, in both cases desperations kicks into autopilot and it becomes a one track mind to keep a man. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 It's funny how some people get so effected by names... TC, you crack me up! Glad I can put a smile on your face this early in the day darling! Have a great day Lyssa!!! Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 People do crazy things out of desperation ask a BS why she kept a cheater and though she will never admit the answer is desperation, in both cases desperations kicks into autopilot and it becomes a one track mind to keep a man. Interesting, you think women take their husbands back out of desperation? From all the reading I've done most women immediately throw him out, tell him leave if you love someone else and then the man starts begging out of desperation to keep his happy home. These women often times have ten plus years with their husbands being the devoted family man putting everyone first. The selfish "me" man is not someone they have known their whole marriage. They bring back the family man not the selfish one. The selfish one gets kicked to the curb unless he successfully goes futher underground with his ow. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 Glad I can put a smile on your face this early in the day darling! Have a great day Lyssa!!! Thanks for the smile, honey. It's evening here and I'm having a great one... Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I think the desperation comes in on the ow's part when she agrees to go more into hiding because she is desperate not to lose him. She will keep him at all costs even when he professes his desire to work on his marriage with his wife.Once this man agrees to work on his marriage with his wife and then hides you more this is not a man anyone should want. Most bs will drop him quick when they find out he continued after a dday. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 These women often times have ten plus years with their husbands being the devoted family man putting everyone first. The selfish "me" man is not someone they have known their whole marriage. They bring back the family man not the selfish one. The selfish one gets kicked to the curb unless he successfully goes futher underground with his ow. Naaaahh nahhha nah, they bring back a pathological liar. The man they once knew is no longer who they thought he was. And this is why very rarely do marriages succeed after an A, some do but it's rare. A woman eventually comes to her senses and realises the man she is looking at and trying so hard to forgive is not at all who she thought he was. The reality is it takes super human power to look a person you trusted in the eyes and overlook the fact he not only spent the last few years telling another woman he loved her, he also shared his own wife's personal intimacies with her. God only knows what he said about her, for example that she has an unappealing unrully vajayjay. C'mon if you can bring yourself to love a man after the possibility of that, you must not think all that much about yourself. So really when a BS takes a cheater back all she is doing is prolonging the agony. You know I even have a double standard for this, because when a woman cheats on her H I think she has more tact in what she shares with the OM, I think predominantly it is the man who opens the floodgates to very intimate stuff about his W, women I think are a little bit more guarded in that sense. I think... Some people are masochists. I am more the have fun and enjoy life type of human being...which why I'll never see the pleasure in that. But there is no accounting for what people settle for. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I think the desperation comes in on the ow's part when she agrees to go more into hiding because she is desperate not to lose him. I don't know which OW you know but I sure don't sense any desperation in some of the stories I have read. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I think the desperation comes in on the ow's part when she agrees to go more into hiding because she is desperate not to lose him. She will keep him at all costs even when he professes his desire to work on his marriage with his wife.Once this man agrees to work on his marriage with his wife and then hides you more this is not a man anyone should want. Most bs will drop him quick when they find out he continued after a dday. I haven't seen many cases of women that keep a man once they agreed to go back and work on the marriage and end the A. If the woman stays in an A with a man who is still married he more than likely has not agreed to work on the marriage he welcomes the relationship and just needs more time to work things out. Some OW get just what they want even though he is not 100% available. Either way the OW will always get the best of the man while the poor wife gets the riff raff, his bad mood his distant persona, his highs and lows...basically all the bullcrap because he saves his best for the OW. The OW might get less time with him but she gets the BEST of him. Sometimes less is more! Link to post Share on other sites
greengoddess Posted October 24, 2007 Share Posted October 24, 2007 I don't know which OW you know but I sure don't sense any desperation in some of the stories I have read. Would you take a man back after a dday if he told his wife he wanted to work on the marriage and stay in it? I've read many ow's who have done just that. I wuld think that would be a dealbreaker if you weren't desperate to keep him. Link to post Share on other sites
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