GreenEyedLady Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I never said all and have made that quite clear. I think it is fine to generalize that most or the majority of affairs are a secret. If it's not a secret then it is not an affair the man is apparently in an open relationship and you choose to share him. I'm not sharing him...But I'm sure that doesn't fit in the world you've created for yourself...
Author NoIDidn't Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 Hey, this thread was started concerning if the MM put his W down to the OW. Can we get back to the topic at hand, please?
OWoman Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Looking back, I suppose most of what my MM said to me about his W was through comparison-by-implication, if that makes sense? "Wow, you're so xxxxx" implying that W is not xxxxx, or "I'm so glad we both enjoy abcd" implying she doesn't. But the focus was never on her, it was never that he was wanting to comment on her or a lack in his M. It was more like a kid in a sweet shop getting carried away by all the new and wonderful things he saw in front of him.
Lyssa Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Looking back, I suppose most of what my MM said to me about his W was through comparison-by-implication, if that makes sense? "Wow, you're so xxxxx" implying that W is not xxxxx, or "I'm so glad we both enjoy abcd" implying she doesn't. But the focus was never on her, it was never that he was wanting to comment on her or a lack in his M. It was more like a kid in a sweet shop getting carried away by all the new and wonderful things he saw in front of him. Yup, that's how it was with my MM. Never put down his W. There are issues he told me but doesn't put 100% blame on her. I don't see why a man must put down his W and vice versa. I do know that there are women out there that keep saying their Hs are not good enough for them.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 are you serious? What is wrong with a nice shower together and some shaving cream and a razor? a razor in a woman's hand (especially his wife's) sounds a little scary to me.
MrsHellnoFire Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Oh one thing he did tell me once was that she had an unkept you know what (dowthere) basically a forrest from a 60's porn mag. That made me very uncomfortable and I told him I never want to hear anything like that again. He never did. Gross. You really know how to pick the "Classy" ones. LOL. Who on earth would sleep with some dud so crude? It might hurt the wife also, but she should know who she is screwing on a daily basis.
greengoddess Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I'm not sharing him...But I'm sure that doesn't fit in the world you've created for yourself... Of course you don't dear. He sleeps on the couch or in the basement for years.
greengoddess Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Hey, this thread was started concerning if the MM put his W down to the OW. Can we get back to the topic at hand, please? I apologize. It is a good topic too.
Author NoIDidn't Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 Looking back, I suppose most of what my MM said to me about his W was through comparison-by-implication, if that makes sense? "Wow, you're so xxxxx" implying that W is not xxxxx, or "I'm so glad we both enjoy abcd" implying she doesn't. But the focus was never on her, it was never that he was wanting to comment on her or a lack in his M. It was more like a kid in a sweet shop getting carried away by all the new and wonderful things he saw in front of him. This is the kind of thing that my H was doing. Its not a direct put down, or even a direct mention of me. But the implications are always clear. It was sometimes the "she [me] used to do this, man I miss this" kind of thing too. Again, not really a put down. More like reminiscing over what was while taking any considerations of the W down a notch. And I agree to about the "kid in a sweet shop" thing.
milx Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 My married man didn't put his wife down but my married wife put her husband down. Alot too. Sometimes I pity him. It's really bad. I do feel like telling her off sometimes but it's her marriage not mine.
Author NoIDidn't Posted October 25, 2007 Author Posted October 25, 2007 My married man didn't put his wife down but my married wife put her husband down. Alot too. Sometimes I pity him. It's really bad. I do feel like telling her off sometimes but it's her marriage not mine. Interesting. Maybe, I should have made the question unisex. So now its, Did your MP put their spouse down?
TogetherForever Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Interesting. Maybe, I should have made the question unisex. So now its, Did your MP put their spouse down? It leaves me to wonder, also, if milx is a mm or mw or sm or sw???
luvmy2ns Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 It leaves me to wonder, also, if milx is a mm or mw or sm or sw??? I'm thinking maybe BF, since there's been both a MM and a MW.
TogetherForever Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I'm thinking maybe BF, since there's been both a MM and a MW. BF as in boyfriend?
milx Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Interesting. Maybe, I should have made the question unisex. So now its, Did your MP put their spouse down? Married woman put husband down. Married man did not put wife down. Yet.
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Married woman put husband down. Married man did not put wife down. Yet. Are you saying that you are having two affairs as in seeing a MM and a MW?
milx Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Are you saying that you are having two affairs as in seeing a MM and a MW? I'm only having one. It's complicated. Let's play a guessing game. Who wants to guess?????
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 I'm only having one. It's complicated. Let's play a guessing game. Who wants to guess????? Then you must be doing both of them and neither knows. Is this right?
milx Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Then you must be doing both of them and neither knows. Is this right? Ok. Scary. How on earth did you guess that??? Shoot! People do go thru that don't they? It is complicated.
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Ok. Scary. How on earth did you guess that??? Shoot! People do go thru that don't they? It is complicated. How did that happen? Were you initially friends with the happy married couple? This should be interesting. I'm all ears, let e'r rip! :lmao:
milx Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 No. We weren't friends. I befriended wife first. Interesting? Complicated is more like it! I can see it would be interesting to outsiders but as the story unfolds after I got myself involved..... it became compli-CAH-ted!
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 No. We weren't friends. I befriended wife first. Interesting? Complicated is more like it! I can see it would be interesting to outsiders but as the story unfolds after I got myself involved..... it became compli-CAH-ted! I see. So you were having physical relations with the W and then had an attraction to her H. So how is everybody doing? Is everybody happy? You are one busy lady or are you the Man?
pythonshoes Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 Interesting. Maybe, I should have made the question unisex. So now its, Did your MP put their spouse down? So we can't go back and change the subject line, huh. That's too bad. That messes me up 2. But I'm getting terribly interested in milx' story. with that name and a couple of other posts, it sounds like she's a bi woman. I had an office employee that lived that lifestyle. She and her H took a 2nd woman into their M and bed. Occasionally their intimacies would not include a third, so they each had an opportunity to 'dish' about the absent partner.
pollywag Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 We all know men put their ball chain down when they have affairs, they wouldn't be sleeping around if they didn't have bad things to say bout their wives. Now...more importantly this thread is getting interesting. So is milx bi then?
troutie jr Posted October 25, 2007 Posted October 25, 2007 We all know men put their ball chain down when they have affairs, they wouldn't be sleeping around if they didn't have bad things to say bout their wives. Now...more importantly this thread is getting interesting. So is milx bi then? I would assume he/she is. I want to know which is better the MW or the MM and why? I'm hetro myself, but I always wondered which one is better in a Bi's eyes or should I say body parts. :lmao:
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