cjhl8687 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 I have been with my "girl Friend" 2.5 years now, and she had a group of friends when she was in high school, and they were very very close, the croup included a couple guys but they were never thought of more then a friend, i mean one of them is dating her bf. she just now turned 21, and wants to go out with friends and such to the bars and clubs. I dont try to be jealous or controlling, but something about when she goes out just makes me so mad, like i dont wany anything to happen, i mean i want her to have friends and hang out with them and stuff, its just when guys are involved, friends or not, i just feel so mad, and i dont know how to overcome it? I mean i want to change for the better of both of us, because i know its a bad "habit" does anyone have any tips or anything? Link to post Share on other sites
Sarita12385 Posted October 23, 2007 Share Posted October 23, 2007 Bad habit? If you think what you're feeling is the spawn of a bad habit, then every other person in a relationship needs some counseling You definitely don't have a bad habit my dear! You care about the girl and have got good strong feelings for her - I'd feel the same way you do! This is where trust comes into play and really shines through. The two of you need to trust each other 110% when it comes to situations like this. If she has never given you a reason to not trust her, no need to start now or it'll just make things worse. Just hang in there, I'm sure you've got nothin' to be worried about. Let her go out w/her girlfriends and do what they do. It's you she comes back to at the end Link to post Share on other sites
Author cjhl8687 Posted October 24, 2007 Author Share Posted October 24, 2007 ok, i totally know what you mean, I had always thought that but i never really put it to heart, hopefully hearing it from someone else will help. thank you very much Link to post Share on other sites
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