boxingfootyboy Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 My fiance cheated on my 3 weeks ago with one of my friends and apparently my best friend new about it and didnt tell me, so i went 3 weeks with my fiance acting all fine with me when i i shouldn't of even been talking to her,I FOUND OU 2DAYS BEFORE THE WEDDING! but the problem is that i still love her but she has done it to me so many times before and she is just the biggest flirt and alwayas act like she ahasn't done anything.grrr. I dont trust her any more, how can i have a heathly realtionship without trust and that is why i just dont want to be with her anymore and no one else thinks that i should go back because they all know she will do it again and she acts like the innocent one and makes me out to be the bad guy, its just aint going to work like that anymore. So what do you think i should do about it? Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 I'm sorry for what your fiancee did to you. That wasn't nice at all. I dont trust her any more, how can i have a heathly realtionship without trust I think you pretty much answered your own Q. If you can't see yourself trusting her after all this then I guess marrying her would be a bad idea! Link to post Share on other sites
reservoirdog1 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 GET. OUT. NOW. Do NOT shackle yourself to that woman. What kind of life will you be signing on for if you do? It sucks that you love her, no doubt about that. But there are a lot of women who love men who beat the shyt out of them on a regular basis. You just happen to be engaged to a lying, cheating, amoral bytch, who you say has done this to you many times before. Don't you think you deserve better than her? I know it's two days before the wedding, but that does NOT mean you have to go through with it. Sure, money's been spent, and some people will be inconvenienced by the last-minute cancellation. But that's a piss poor reason to go ahead with it, especially in these circumstances. Everybody who might be upset about the sudden cancellation will, I'll bet, be totally understanding when they learn the reason why. Right now you can still get out with little consequence, and probably without lawyers. You have no kids with her (I'm guessing). Get out while you still can. You will never be happy with somebody like her. Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 This woman has totally no respect for you whatsoever. Good riddance. You deserve better. I would also not be friends with a friend that did not tell you. Your girlfriend was a total loser. Don't let her bring you down to her level. Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Take the ring back and kick her the hell out!!!! She's done it before. you dont want a cheating wife do you!??!?! Im sorry but your mental and sexual health comes first and you dont want no STD right? Kick her to the curb do not get married!!!! I implore you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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