Blue Eyed Brain Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Last year at an after office event, a guy who just started working at my company, placed his hand on my knee. (Later in the year he told me that's his way of letting a woman know that he is very interested). We are compatable in music, comedy, age, cars, etc. We share music with each other and have a great time when we are at office functions. Throughout the year, he has invited me for "game night" with his friends and at work socials, he's always by my side. (I couldn't do the "game night"). He stops by my office a few times a week and is always smiling and attentive to me. Question: Is this going to go any farther or should I just accept this as a friendship? Link to post Share on other sites
Cobra_X30 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 If your asking the question then it is probably too far. However, if your SO were in this situation... would it bother you? Thats the first question you need to answer... then ask yourself... Would you be comfortable having this interaction in front of him? If your answers are No, Yes.... then maybe its ok. Other combinations may spell trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Blue Eyed Brain Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 I'm not asking for approval. I am asking if this is friendship (and I'm reading it wrong) or if this person has more feelings for me. Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 he's definately into you more than just friends, but as long as you don't lead him on and make sure he knows his place if he goes too far then you're fine. Unless you want it to be more, then lead him on. Link to post Share on other sites
wtfamidoing Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 I think I can speak for pretty much all guys when I say we don't usually put a lot of energy into pursuing things unless there's something in it for us. And if I couple that knowledge with your profile photo (is that you?), it leaves no doubt in my mind - he wants it to go further. He wouldn't mind being friends, but would also not mind if things progressed further than that. BTW, thanks for your input on the Infidelity board (Is cheating on the horizon?). Our predicaments are quite similar. Same basic question... Same disinterest in approval... Link to post Share on other sites
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