hotpinksavage Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 i just found out there is a women who is coming on to my bf he has told her he wants to only be friends because he is with me. but she is trying to get him to call her. telling him to call when i am a sleep or go out so she can tell him what she wants to do to him. sending him pic of her boobs and storys of them having sex and asking him to call her and meet her. I an not sure what to do with this he dose not know i know any of this and i dont want to make a big deal out of this. He as told her he is with me. but tells her if we were not together he would get with her.. my bf and i have only been together about year just moved in. i dont like to be jealous he dose not like girl who are. i need some help is this something guys do he has pick me over her but why dose he not stop talking with her and saving the pic of her boobs. i need some help please what would you do guys help is this a big thing or not ? now i was using his email and thats how i found all this out so now if i tell him he will think i dont trust him and i was snoping so i dont know what to do Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Simply put I would believe that she is the backup plan. He also likes the excitement of having someone pursue him. Nipping this one in the bud is the way to go.. If I was in your position I would sit him down and explain to him that what he is doing is nothing more than trawling for a woman.. She is trawling for a man and he allows it. I would then explain to him that his behavior and his contact with her must stop from this point out. Also explain to him that if he continues contact and continues to save the picture of her boobs then you will exit the relationship and he will be left standing there with nobody by his side. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Would you consider it appropiate to have a picture on another man's penis on your phone ? Would he consider it appropiate ? Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 25, 2007 Share Posted October 25, 2007 Yeah, tell him you didn't want to snoop but you happened across something and couldn't stop yourself from reading. If he gets defensive and all that then maybe it just wasn't meant. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hotpinksavage Posted October 25, 2007 Author Share Posted October 25, 2007 Would you consider it appropiate to have a picture on another man's penis on your phone ? Would he consider it appropiate ? Wow i did not think about it that way thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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