sasha1216 Posted May 7, 2003 Share Posted May 7, 2003 I need a little advice and I will try to make this short and sweet... I am a divorced mother of 1 in my late 20's. I think I am average looking, I don't normally have a hard time meeting people, I am very friendly and outgoing. I went out a couple of months ago with some friends of mine to a dance club. One of my friends knew this guy that was there who I will call Chris. I have seen him there before and thought he was an attractive guy. Anyhow, towards the end of the night he came up and started talking to me and we danced and then exchanged numbers. Now, I have NEVER met anyone in the bar that I have given my number too, because I always felt I couldn't't really take them seriously and they were only after one thing. I really didn't get that feeling from him. Anyhow, when we left, I ended up getting in his car and we talke for about an hour or so, and then we kissed. Then when I was gettingolut of his car he said, "If I don't call you, it is nothing personal or anything, o.k?".......I thought that was a weird thing to say.....but I was like whatever. So 2 nights later he calls me and I was surprised and I told him I was....he said, Why would I ask for your number if I wasn't going to call? SO we talked for a while and then I had to put my child to bed. Right before I said I had to go, I thought he was gonna ask me out, but then he changed the subject. So he was like call me later this week. So Friday I went out with my friends and called him to see if he was going out dancing and he said he wasn't he had to work, but he was going out Saturday to give him a call and we would meet up there. Well, I didn't go out and I didn't call him until Sunday and he said I thought you were going to call me yesterday. I just kind of said I didn't go out....and he was ok with that. So anyway he hasn't called me since then, and I have seen him on several occasions at the dance club. He always goes out of his way to talk to me and buy me drinks. When I walk up to his table he immediately stands up and he will always touch my hair or poke my stomach (what is THAT?) Tell me I have a beautiful smile.. Anyway, I watch him and he doesn't do this when he talks to any other girls. I haven't even so much as seen him flirting or dancing with other girls. I have been thinking about him so much, I can't even go out on dates with other guys with out thinking about him. SO I called him this past Saturday and he knew immediately it was me. I called form a different number and I was surprised as soon as I said Hi Chris, he knew it was me. But I just pretended like I was just saying hey or whatever and as usual he is ALWAYS as sweet as sweet can possibly be...on the phone and in person. but we chated for a while and I told him I had to go and immediately he was like call me this week and we will see what is going on this weekend. I told him I will call him this Saturday. I am kind of thinking about asking him out, cause I really do think he is interested but is just scared or shy or something...I don't know. I am not really beautiful or anything, I have been told that I have a very sexy attitude and a confidence that is very attractive. I just don't know what the problem is with him and I am kind of hoping to get a little direction before This weekend. I have no problem getting dates, why is this one so important to me...... Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 7, 2003 Share Posted May 7, 2003 It's important to you because he's not so easy. By all means ask him out. I don't know what's going on in his head and I wouldn't put a lot of significance into the whole thing at this point. But maybe you can get something started here. Go for what you want. Link to post Share on other sites
sasha1216 Posted May 7, 2003 Share Posted May 7, 2003 Thanks Tony! I have never asked a guy out before, so I guess I am feeling kind of weird about it. Nervous is the word...there is the whole "rejection" thing.. And he is difficult to read... Link to post Share on other sites
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