LadyWolf_1376 Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 First off let me just say that I am new here so I hope that I'm posting in the right place. Ok, I am here because I have no one else to turn to that has nothing but negitive things to say about my husband. Here is my little story. My husband and I have been married 12 years. We have been seperated for a year. We have 3 kids together, 1 boy and 2 girls ages 12, 11 and 4. First, there has never been any physical or mental abuse and there is no drug use.Just cheating. My husband and I seperated because I found out that he had cheated on me...again. I never cheated on him unless you count my being with other men after I filed for divorce, mainly I believe it was to get back at him because I did not injoy it and felt really horrible during and after. All my friends say it is not cheating...but I feel differantly about that. We are still married so as far as im concerned...its cheating. Anyway, my hubby is begging me to drop the divorce and for me and the kids to go back to him. Now I really do love him even though he hurt me good. The children really miss him and I miss him. The thing is I want to be with him but I dont...Does that make any sence? Also, this past year his father passed away so he inherited some money. With that money he bought a 3 bedroom house and furnished it and payed off our bills. He has also been giving me a little money for the kids. Now he is telling me that he will sell the house and everything in it if I will just drop the divorce and go back to him. I dont want him to sell his home. I do want to be with him. I just dont know if I would be making the right desicion to go back to him. I also dont know how to go about stopping the divorce if it is what I decide to do. I am just so confussed!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Spinderella Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 You said cheated on you....again. How many times, and for how much of your marriage? Link to post Share on other sites
Author LadyWolf_1376 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Share Posted October 26, 2007 He has cheated on me twice while we were together. The first time was years ago, the older 2 kids were 5 and 4 and he told me about it. The second time was 2 years ago. He was seeing the ow at work and befor work and after work...they worked together...that went on for 8 months, then he stopped seeing her and I later found out about it when she called and told me about it cause he wouldnt go back to her. I didnt believe her at first but then she came over one day while he was at work and gave me pictures of the 2 of them...then she left with out another word. Then I left my hubby and filed for divorce. Link to post Share on other sites
Author LadyWolf_1376 Posted October 26, 2007 Author Share Posted October 26, 2007 Forgot that since we have been seperated he has been with a few other women but he says they are not me and he doesnt want to try to replace me anymore. Whatever that means. Link to post Share on other sites
Spinderella Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 Theres an infidelity section on this forum, where you will probably get more replies and more experienced advice. The only thing that I could say is, that if you go back to him now, then I doubt that he would have changed much. If you both get to the bottom of why he cheated and he also works on his own problems then thats another matter, but could take a long time. Link to post Share on other sites
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