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My views on Second Chances.


c.r.e.a.m

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"I value you and our relationship, but this isn't working. (If there are big reasons why, express them here, or...) I just don't feel we are right for each other to continue this relationship. My feelings have changed/haven't continued to progress. I don't see this relationship going further, any reasons I give would just be excuses I use to rationalize my decision. It's just not right, so I need to end it now, so you can heal and move on and find the relationship that you deserve, because I am not that person." Ha, like anyone would ever say that!

 

My ex actually said almost these exact words to me. And for the record, it doesn't make it any easier to let him go. I realize he isn't coming back. He started a new relationship almost instantaneously. But I still love him. I can't imagine not having his friendship in my future. And I might always hold on to the hope that one day he will mature and want me back. I have a lot to prove and he is not the type to believe that people can ever change. I am planning to move to a new city for a fresh start. I believe that we will be in contact. It won't be frequent contact. Right now it is impossible to be friends because of my feelings and the fact that I see him and his new girlfriend at least every few days because they work in the same place as me. See the link below for my story. I didn't mention in my story but I am 27 and my ex is 24.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t134345/

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My ex actually said almost these exact words to me. And for the record, it doesn't make it any easier to let him go. I realize he isn't coming back. He started a new relationship almost instantaneously. But I still love him. I can't imagine not having his friendship in my future. And I might always hold on to the hope that one day he will mature and want me back. I have a lot to prove and he is not the type to believe that people can ever change. I am planning to move to a new city for a fresh start. I believe that we will be in contact. It won't be frequent contact. Right now it is impossible to be friends because of my feelings and the fact that I see him and his new girlfriend at least every few days because they work in the same place as me. See the link below for my story. I didn't mention in my story but I am 27 and my ex is 24.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t134345/

 

Thats what I've always wanted, an older woman. I always found it attractive...well thats just my opinion.

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