dillip_m Posted October 26, 2007 Share Posted October 26, 2007 Hi, I knew my girlfriend fro the past 1 year from the last company where i worked.She is 22 yrs old.We started our relationship with meeting each other at theatres and coffee junctions.We ended up in making love.Ater that i asked her if she really wanted to start the love relationship with me or it was just a part time affair.She had said she wanted me as her life partner. Now she has moved to one of the MBA institutions for her higher studies.We now seldom meet but are in constant touch with one another by phone.I always thought she loved me very much and so do i. Few days back , she told me that one of her friend in the college is having infactuation on her and that she does not have any feeling for that guy. But i was not at all convinced about the situation. Now yesterday , when i was going through the chat logs of my girlfriend, i found that she had started loving the company of that guy and they meet every day. When i asked her about this, she said this was during last month when she had started meeting with that guy but now she does not want to continue the relationship with that guy. How do i trust her now? I was very disturbed and thought hard whether to trust her or not. I dont know what to do.Please help !!!! Link to post Share on other sites
lost4ever Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 I don't know if she is cheating yet, but it sounds like she is testing the waters...decided what you want....ask her what she wants Link to post Share on other sites
JosieMcCoy Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Yes! You should get some proofy-proof! But keep your eyes open!! Cheers! Link to post Share on other sites
Author dillip_m Posted October 29, 2007 Author Share Posted October 29, 2007 I don't know if she is cheating yet, but it sounds like she is testing the waters...decided what you want....ask her what she wants I went to meet her and tried to talk to her regarding this. She has a tendency to speak the truth if you ask 3-4 times otherwise she tries to evade the situation. This makes my situation even worse when i am not convinced. After asking for a few times she finally disclosed that she had developed a closeness for that guy in about 2 months to the extent of kissing each other when they met and after the issue became disclosed she wants to continue as it is with him. I told her if she wanted to continue that relationship then she has to choose between me and that guy. She said she is confused what to do. She told she still loves me but also wants to continue with him. Let me tell you one more thing that we have caste difference between us which is aslo a factor that she is confused whether our family will allow us to get married.I dont believe in caste differences though.But this is a hurdle in india specially. I am upset about the situation and dont know what to do.I think she is still immature to decide what she wants. Kindly give your valuable feedback. - Dillip Link to post Share on other sites
Davey McG Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Cut your losses. She sounds immature and you already know it. Let her go and though it will hurt you will feel better about yourself in the long run. If it was love, caste wouldn't matter that much, she'd find a way Link to post Share on other sites
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