Author hopeforlove243 Posted October 29, 2007 Author Share Posted October 29, 2007 a digital camera with memory card about $300. Why? does that matters? Link to post Share on other sites
funkybassplayer Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 its alot to give to some1 that is not in your life anymore. my suggetion, keep the camera, or get a refund, and just send a card nothing else, thats if you even want to do that. Link to post Share on other sites
niceguy27 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 If you want to send anything at all, mail a light b-day card the day of the b-day. They wont get it for a few days later so you get to send say it and they get to wonder if you really did forget. I did that with my ex. It would of been rude not to ackowledge her b-day as that just isnt me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hopeforlove243 Posted October 29, 2007 Author Share Posted October 29, 2007 Hi niceguy27, I kind like your idea, I am afraid that I would regret if I don't acknowledge his birthday, it might make me feel bad after his b-day. I am curious if your ex ever said anything to you after she got your birthday card? I am not trying to use this to get my ex talking to me, in fact, he wants to talk to me, but I don't at this time, cause he can't give me what I want (a relationship). Link to post Share on other sites
niceguy27 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 i contacted her about a week later in regards to some of her things i had found at my house. one of the first things she said was "thank you so much for the card. i really appreciate it. it was nice getting something addressed to me at the house." She got the card almost 5 days after her b-day. the day of, i went out with friends to keep my mind off of her. come to find out, she was home by 8 that night and none of her roomates did anything for her. if you want to do ANYTHING for him, mail him a card. thats all. dont get him any presents or a sappy card. i bought a sappy card, stamped it, then threw it out and got a funny one. our ex's already know how we feel and so no sense in dragging it out by emotionally putting ourselves out here. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hopeforlove243 Posted October 30, 2007 Author Share Posted October 30, 2007 Suddenly I feel so tempted to call my ex... I want to tell him about my new kitten, I want to see how his cat doing, I miss him so much :( I have to keep telling myself no, no, you can't contact him, I don't know how long I can hold on... This is so hard... Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted October 30, 2007 Share Posted October 30, 2007 Not no, but hellz no. Link to post Share on other sites
gdguy07 Posted October 30, 2007 Share Posted October 30, 2007 This is a tricky one.Im about to go through the same thing.My ex off 1 year text me hb 1 week late last month & made out she couldnt remember the correct date.Her bday is coming up & although we get on ok sometimes im sick off the games & lies she has played with me, so ive decided im not going to wish her hb & really i dont care if i never see or talk to her again.The good thing is i know it will hurt her. If your situation is different to mine & there is still honesty between yas i would just send a text myself no card no present...your not together anymore remember. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hopeforlove243 Posted October 30, 2007 Author Share Posted October 30, 2007 I didn't call him yesterday, what a torture it was, but I am glad that I didn't call him. I have decided that I will not give him the birthday gift, I probably will send him a card, or email. I can't stop wondering if he misses me, what he is thinking though, and I still cry a lot, I can put up a brave face when I am at work, the minute I step into my car, I start crying. Sometimes sitting at my office, I have to fight hard to not let tear coming down my face. This is so hard. Link to post Share on other sites
Author hopeforlove243 Posted November 1, 2007 Author Share Posted November 1, 2007 today is my ex's b-day, i woke up at 3:30am and didn't get any sleep after that. Went to see counselor the first time in my life at 10am, weird that i left office for an hour to cry in front of a counselor then came back to work. Haven't done anything about his b-day yet, tempted to break nc after seeing some of u did that recently Link to post Share on other sites
Author hopeforlove243 Posted November 2, 2007 Author Share Posted November 2, 2007 I finally called him at 8:30pm, just couldn't let the day go by without saying 'happy birthday' to him. He is with his family, so he said he has to call me back, I said 'it is ok, just want to say happy b-day'. I also called his friend who introduced us before I got off work, wanted to do dinner with him(really didn't want to spend the evening by myself), but he already had plan... today is definitely a very very tough day for me Link to post Share on other sites
Saxis Posted November 2, 2007 Share Posted November 2, 2007 My STBXW will hopefully wish me HB by finalizing the divorce. We're looking at a court date 2 days before my B-day! Woot! Happy Birthday to meee! I won't be calling on her B-day.... Link to post Share on other sites
wounded70 Posted November 2, 2007 Share Posted November 2, 2007 i did and she got pissed, lol..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author hopeforlove243 Posted November 3, 2007 Author Share Posted November 3, 2007 I called my ex-bf on his birthday, he was having dinner with his family, he called me back, it was an awkward conversation, I said I just want to wish you happy birthday, he said thank you, and he started talking about investment like talking to his client (he manages my money), I didn't say a word, then he asked if I am ready to talk, I asked talk about what, he said, everything, I said no. then we talked about his cat, then hanged up, he is not calling me 'baby' (i told him not to do that anymore), and he is not calling me the nick name he gave me. It is just awkward... Link to post Share on other sites
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