plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 I myself absolutely love a woman with curves. The first thing I notice is physique, and I think this applies to most anyone. It is not the deciding factor but it is the first thing I notice then the eyes, the smile, the personality and so on. I like a woman that feels and looks healthy, a nice soft tummy and waist, soft hands, pretty feet, sexy neckline, pretty face etc. Weight is not an issue, however I would like a gf that is active and can keep up with my interests and also a woman that has the confidence to dress up for me feel, sexy and know that I think she's sexy too. I would take a womanly body over a skinny uninteresting body anyday. However, I've never been attracted to a woman that is too heavy, nothing against her but I cant help but assume that she would never want to go hiking or snowboarding, or on any highly physical activities and that would never work because I am very much that kinda guy... Link to post Share on other sites
coco_milkshake Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 So glad there are men out there who like curvy women and not the stick thin kind. *thumbs up* Plainoldjared, you look like Joey from Friends!! How YOU doin'? Link to post Share on other sites
plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 http://pictures.match.com/pictures/08/07/56790807P.jpeg http://pictures.match.com/pictures/08/07/56790807G.jpeg Me and my curves! I just wanted to say that you are all very attractive women. The men you have been with that have made you feel otherwise are worthless losers. You're beautiful and any man would be lucky to have you Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 I myself absolutely love a woman with curves. The first thing I notice is physique, and I think this applies to most anyone. It is not the deciding factor but it is the first thing I notice then the eyes, the smile, the personality and so on. I like a woman that feels and looks healthy, a nice soft tummy and waist, soft hands, pretty feet, sexy neckline, pretty face etc. Weight is not an issue, however I would like a gf that is active and can keep up with my interests and also a woman that has the confidence to dress up for me feel, sexy and know that I think she's sexy too. I would take a womanly body over a skinny uninteresting body anyday. However, I've never been attracted to a woman that is too heavy, nothing against her but I cant help but assume that she would never want to go hiking or snowboarding, or on any highly physical activities and that would never work because I am very much that kinda guy... :love: Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 So glad there are men out there who like curvy women and not the stick thin kind. *thumbs up* Plainoldjared, you look like Joey from Friends!! How YOU doin'? I was so just thinking thats who he looked like. And BTW...I love outdoor activites. I'm very outdoorsie. Hiking, biking, fishing, camping....I love it all. Now I have to plan a weekend...lol. Link to post Share on other sites
plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 So glad there are men out there who like curvy women and not the stick thin kind. *thumbs up* Plainoldjared, you look like Joey from Friends!! How YOU doin'? Haha, Ive never gotten that I do like sandwiches though... Link to post Share on other sites
plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 :love: I absolutely love your picture Link to post Share on other sites
plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 I was so just thinking thats who he looked like. And BTW...I love outdoor activites. I'm very outdoorsie. Hiking, biking, fishing, camping....I love it all. Now I have to plan a weekend...lol. Im still waiting to hear that you've talked to army boy... You should definitely plan a weekend with your friends and get out enjoy life and meet a guy that isnt selfish enough to put you aside... Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Im still waiting to hear that you've talked to army boy... You should definitely plan a weekend with your friends and get out enjoy life and meet a guy that isnt selfish enough to put you aside... Yeah I know, I know. Here is the update.... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134074&page=2 Link to post Share on other sites
heatherd1201 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 plainoldjared, you DO look just like him! And its nice that you like curves! I myself have been really down about my curves lately. I never had them. Well except for my chest, that was always large!! But up until this past year I was very small framed. Now I have put on about 25 pounds, I have some curves that are getting me really depressed. My fiance says he loves me just the way I am, but when we first started dating I was much much smaller.... Link to post Share on other sites
coco_milkshake Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Haha, Ive never gotten that I do like sandwiches though... Grandma's chicken salad. There's always room for jello. :lmao: Link to post Share on other sites
plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 plainoldjared, you DO look just like him! And its nice that you like curves! I myself have been really down about my curves lately. I never had them. Well except for my chest, that was always large!! But up until this past year I was very small framed. Now I have put on about 25 pounds, I have some curves that are getting me really depressed. My fiance says he loves me just the way I am, but when we first started dating I was much much smaller.... 25lbs really isnt much, Im sure its hard on you since you're used to not having the extra weight. My advice would be, forget about it. I think your health should be your concern, Im not a doc but I dont think 25lbs can really affect your health. If you feel depressed just remember that your fiance loves you and youre still the amazing woman he fell in love with. Im sure he'd support you if you want to lose the weight but again, Im betting that the little extra weight is really accentuating your curves, hence the happy fiance My ex is from Guatemala, she's 5'5" and wore a size 5 (I think), gorgeous gorgeous. I think shes a size 7, or so, now and let me tell you that extra weight gave her the most amazing booty and her thighs OMG. I should stop now but anyhow its all about how you use it. Damn her she used it well... Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 We all try to use it well....;) Link to post Share on other sites
coco_milkshake Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 We all try to use it well....;) Damn right!!! Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Grandma's chicken salad. There's always room for jello. :lmao: What's not to like? Custard, good. Jam, good. Meat, gooooooooooooood. Link to post Share on other sites
coco_milkshake Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 What's not to like? Custard, good. Jam, good. Meat, gooooooooooooood. Oh yeah. You the man Tan. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 I'm happy with my body. I have always been. I was told by a few guys that they were not too happy with my body. Although I don't give a rat's ar$e about it... it gets to me. It's weird cause I am a confident woman! Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 What's not to like? Custard, good. Jam, good. Meat, gooooooooooooood. Hell yeah, gotta keep up those curves. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Ladies, if you're within the range of healthy BMIs, weight doesn't matter. If you're above the range, have the percentage of your bodyfat measured by a professional, who can also assess whether you should be losing weight or not. It's health that matters the most. Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 I'm happy with my body. I have always been. I was told by a few guys that they were not too happy with my body. Although I don't give a rat's ar$e about it... it gets to me. It's weird cause I am a confident woman! I totally understand. Grr. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Body fat percentage is a better indicator than BMI. Link to post Share on other sites
plainoldjared Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 Yeah I know, I know. Here is the update.... http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=134074&page=2 It sounds like he was jealous. I wonder, were you talking to anyone at the party? I mean, where you paying any extra attention to anyone? I ask because it seems like he got moody after you went out for beers with the guys so this could be the reason he was being distant over the weekend, he's punishing you for paying too much attention to others. If thats the case thats not your problem. He doesnt talk to you about how he feels, he doesnt pay attention to how you feel and he doesnt konw how to deal with his feelings. None of that is your fault. You did good by not staying the night, how boring and frustrating. I agree with just leaving him alone. He is afterall the one with issues. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 I agree Tan but BMI calc is pretty easy for everyone to do from home. If your BMI is out of whack, it's a good time to take it one step further and verify whether it's a larger frame situation or an unhealthy amount of body fat. Link to post Share on other sites
shadowplay Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 For what it's worth Kate Moss actually is fairly curvy as models go. Check out this video: I think she was also quite pretty when she was young, before the coke/accelerated aging took its toll Link to post Share on other sites
Ali4134 Posted October 29, 2007 Share Posted October 29, 2007 It sounds like he was jealous. I wonder, were you talking to anyone at the party? I mean, where you paying any extra attention to anyone? I ask because it seems like he got moody after you went out for beers with the guys so this could be the reason he was being distant over the weekend, he's punishing you for paying too much attention to others. If thats the case thats not your problem. He doesnt talk to you about how he feels, he doesnt pay attention to how you feel and he doesnt konw how to deal with his feelings. None of that is your fault. You did good by not staying the night, how boring and frustrating. I agree with just leaving him alone. He is afterall the one with issues. Yeah, except I was out with his female roommate. Two of her guy friends went, but he knows I have no interest in them. Other than that a friend of mine thinks he might be upset because I'm moving and that may be. But I don't deserve to be ignored and all that. He should just tell me for heavens sake. Geez. Link to post Share on other sites
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