Beatnik Posted May 11, 2003 Share Posted May 11, 2003 OK there was this girl at my school who is very attractive whom started paying attention to me. Always saying hello to me and smiling at me and complementing what I was wearing, so I thought she liked me some so I asked her out and she accepted. During the date she dressed pretty suggestively, completely unlike her normal attire, so again I thought it was a sign. But her body language and general choice of conversation (various actors she was going to marry) made me feel like she didnt like me at all. After the date I took her home, we hugged and she went inside. Then back at school its back to the same old smiling and saying hi routine, so I don't know what the hell is going on. I also came to the realization that I am almost just like her best male friend. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 11, 2003 Share Posted May 11, 2003 She was probably a bit nervous on the first date. And being friends with her is a good thing at this point. Ask her out more. Don't expect an atomic bomb to go off the first few times you go out with a girl. The longer it takes a really nice romance to develop, the better it is. Take your time for Pete's sake and congratulations on respecting her for taking her time as well. Of course, if you keep asking her out and she keeps talking about other people she wants to marry, you will have to have a chat with her about that. Even now, you might want to request that your name be among the candidates...just for fun. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beatnik Posted May 11, 2003 Author Share Posted May 11, 2003 I also think she may have been nervous, especially right when I asked her out, when I would come up and talk to her in the hallways, and when I first picked her up. Also, yesturday was the prom, and after being there for a while my date and I decide to leave because it was lame, and thats when I finally saw her, she seemed to be in a bad mood but lit up when she saw me, unfortunaly I was leaving at didnt get a chance to talk to her. I also know that her date was just a friend, so I'm pretty sure she doesnt have any guys as far as I know. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Beatnik Posted May 12, 2003 Author Share Posted May 12, 2003 Also, her mother works at my school and all of a sudden she is being really nice to me and asking me questions about myself all the time now, and her friends, who are not in my circle of friends and i dont know well are being really nice to me ansd stuff, so I kindof think that she likes me, and has told these people such. Link to post Share on other sites
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