Second chances, what do you think?

[dedo]

I'm just wondering what are peoples thoughts on here about second chances?

 

I've known people who were very close to each other and in the preliminary stages of dating, they split for whatever reason and go their separate ways. Then after a few months they get back together as friends. Eventually over time, they start to date again....they are given a second chance.

 

Except, when these people get back together they fight all the time, they clearly arent compatible for each other. And then you wonder why they were given a second chance. Perhaps it was meant to be, so they could finally go their separate ways without wondering what could have been.

 

But then, it makes me wonder why other people who clearly get along with each other, where there is a connection, are not given a second chance.

 

What do you think?

[Scorpio13c]

Hi Dedo,

In your first case, i think that some couples just can't be alone & would rather be in unhappy relationship rather then well, alone.

Could also be the "Powers that be" in the sky are giving them that chance for exactly like you mentioned.

Same with your second scenario i suppose.

Let me know if you ever find the answer..

Scorp

[thelegend]

i think second chances are possible if they are true second chances. By that i mean are all the issues ironned out. Are the things that tore you apart fixed? Sometimes people get together like Scorpio said just to be together out of fear. I've had second chances and i've given second chances i just think it has to depend on a lot of circumstances.

[cosycat]

I think as long as both parties are willing to work at it, second chances are possible. I'm speaking through experience, my boyfriend and I got back together half a year after an ugly breakup. The first few months were tough, we had alot of issues to work out and God it wasn't easy. But here we are, celebrated our 2 year anniversary in June and I can honestly say it was all worth it. Rule number 1: Always, always identify your issues and reasons for the breakup. Without working those out the old troubles can and will surface again.