nadiaj2727 Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 I am angry with him because he complains about his marriage, yet isn't trying to make it better or leaving the marriage. Instead, he indulges in an affair--yes, with me. I'm totally cool about this as long as neither of us become hurt by the affair. Gwenyth, that doesn't make any sense to me. It makes sense that you would be angry with your MM for complaining about his marriage but not trying to make it better or leaving it. Yet, you are helping him stay in that exact situation. Because he has the fantasy world of you, he doesn't have to live in the reality world of deciding to make or break his marriage. The only way he will be forced to deal with reality is if you walk away. Therefore it doesn't make sense to me how you can be totally "cool" with an affair that is contributing to the very reason you're angry with him. I really don't get that at all.
whichwayisup Posted November 6, 2007 Posted November 6, 2007 Nadia, I don't think she gets it either.
Author Gwyneth Posted November 6, 2007 Author Posted November 6, 2007 bentnotbroken Gwen dear, that was sarcasm. I have children and am in the process of divorcing the pond scum I am married to. LOLOL...pond scum. I like that. Okay for the sarcasm--sometimes it's hard to say if someone's being rude or sarcastic over the net. And right about me not getting him--I don't get men. That's my first problem...
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