confused_lady Posted November 1, 2007 Share Posted November 1, 2007 i like someone, i've never told them.we work together and he is a bit older.i told him i like someone else and he kept asking who it was.he found out from someone else because i didn't tell him. He makes negative comments about this man occasionally. and if i tell him that i find someone attractive he tells me straight away who he finds attractive.he even has told me about his ex-girlfriends,and has given me advice about guys.he told me someone will be lucky to have me.when i've tried to improve on myself he told me he was proud of me.he talks to me constantly and moves closer too. i think he likes me but why give me advice about other guys. he taps me when he walks past like 20 times a day.what do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 2, 2007 Share Posted November 2, 2007 Start flirting with him, smile, look into his eyes, compliment him, give him little touches. That's what he's doing with you! He makes comments about other women because you talk about other guys - he doesn't want to come off as desperate. He's not married is he? If not, then go ahead and flirt and give him some encouragement. He may ask you out. The only thing to be concerned about is work relationships can get very uncomfortable if things don't work out. So you may want to give that some thought. Link to post Share on other sites
Letranger Posted November 2, 2007 Share Posted November 2, 2007 I think he really likes you, but just has poor tactics on his part. In fact, I would bet $100 he really likes you. He sounds a little immature or inexperienced though. Link to post Share on other sites
Author confused_lady Posted November 2, 2007 Author Share Posted November 2, 2007 what happen if i go to him and tell him how i feel but i was wrong Link to post Share on other sites
norajane Posted November 3, 2007 Share Posted November 3, 2007 Why do you have to tell him how you feel? I generally don't recommend that because it can make things awkward. That's why I said to flirt with him. Show him your feelings through your smiles and compliments. If you want to take it a step further, invite him out for coffee or a drink after work, and flirt with him some more. If he likes you, he'll ask you out after that, and you won't have had to TELL him how you feel. Subtle is usually better than putting it all out there, and it's more fun, too. Link to post Share on other sites
Author confused_lady Posted November 3, 2007 Author Share Posted November 3, 2007 ok i'll just flirt and see where it goes.thanks Link to post Share on other sites
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