? Go or not?

[Ruthieo01]

Hello Everyone,

 

I have gotten connected with a guy in a different state about 5 hours from where I live through some mutual friends. We have talked on the phone a little bit before. This past weekend he came to the same party I was at for Halloween. We hung out with each other the majority of the night and I thought he was pretty cool, I noticed he didn't say a whole lot but I thought it might be nerves? Who Knows? But at the end of the night, he said that he was going to go back home. I really didn't know what to do or say, I just figured that he was interested . . . So He ended up staying the night but still left earlier than planned on Saturday - he was supposed to stay still Sunday.

 

Anyway, I get home on Sunday and I received an email from him, He tells me that he was sorry he left so quickly, he had gotten some bad new about a few different things and he was really bummed out and just wanted to be home, and kind of be alone. H wanted to tell me goodbye but since everyone was just standing around he didn’t want it to be awkward. He told me he thought I was very pretty and he really wanted to get to know me more, and that one day he would tell me everything about him. So I responded back and told him I would like to get to know him more and that I didn't really know what to say when he decide to leave since I had just met him.

 

Well he called me last night and told me he thinks it would be cool if I came down there and hung out with him for the weekend sometime. So we can get to know each other. We had an hour and a half conversation, and it was really easy to talk to him. He also explains why he was so bummed out and all.

 

My question is do you think I should go down there and get to know him. (Not this weekend of course, but after a little while) Or since he acted kind of weird and not interested at first should I ask him to come up here again? I don't think it is that big of a deal to go down there. I just don't know if I should be the first one?

 

Just need a little advice

Thanks

[dancinggal]

I say go. It'll be fun! Don't take it too seriously to begin with, hang out together, get to know him. It might have been some terrible news he got that night, and he just didn't want to ruin things with you by telling you about it. Its not like he's a stranger, because its through mutual friends (but make sure you find out everything you can about him through your friend!) and go and just keep it relaxed. Oh, I'm so jealous!