tranceangel24 Posted May 13, 2003 Share Posted May 13, 2003 About a week ago i was messing around on the internet and went into the history to find and old website and i stumbled upon a website that my fiance has been going to it was one of those sites where the other sex is looking for the other anyhow i found his profile and other women that seems to live in the same town as us. Im not sure what to think of this it makes me feel like hes looking for someone new, im 6 months pregnant by this man and i love him with all my heart im just scared. If anyone can help me and tell me what you think about this it would sure help i will confront him soon about it. Thank you! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 14, 2003 Share Posted May 14, 2003 What I think it totally immaterial. It's what you think and I would guess you are probably shocked and hurt. You need to talk to your guy about this as soon as possible and find out what his motivation is for listing himself on and frequenting a dating site. For your information, it has been my own personal observation that one of the times men most frequently betray their wives is during pregancy. Link to post Share on other sites
Lila Posted May 16, 2003 Share Posted May 16, 2003 Definately find out what is going on. Sometimes things can be overlooked and ignore, like visiting a porn site, but DON't brush this off. Sit him down and talk to him about it politely and find out what his intentions are. He might just be bored and looking for somebody to chat with online, but even that steps boundaries. He might just be nervous about the upcoming baby, and this is his way of dealing with it. But, it's not acceptable behavior. If he continues to visit these sites and post profiles about himself even after you have talked to him, then you need to let him go. Good luck! I hope it all works out, especially since there is a baby involved. Link to post Share on other sites
niko1999 Posted May 16, 2003 Share Posted May 16, 2003 I agree. Talk to him about it. Perhaps it is an old membership that he has already paid for, and kind of wants to give himself an ego boost by seeing if other people want to meet him? So it could be a perfectly reasonable explanation, then again, it may not be. YEs, the best thing to do, is to talk to him, let him know how you feel, that your'e NOT snooping around either. I am sure everything will work out just fine. Link to post Share on other sites
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