lykyamy00 Posted November 8, 2007 Share Posted November 8, 2007 so i've been seeing this guy for about two months and we have been like bf/gf basically without the actual title. we havent seen eachother in two weeks or even talked very much in two weeks but we've both been really busy and i didnt have a phone for one of them so i really dont even know if we are still 'together'. anyway... i dont want to cheat even though he says he wouldnt care if i did but would it be considered cheating if i went to my ex's house (hes been my ex for a year and a half and we are still pretty good friends) to watch a movie? i'm not really sure what his motives are and i'm sure i only want friendship from him but if something happened... is that cheating? Link to post Share on other sites
Sal Paradise Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 If you want things to do work out with the guy you're seeing you shouldn't go to the exes house. Most people are not cool with the person they're seeing hanging out with their exes. I'd consider it cheating if my gf went and watched a movie with her ex. There is a 99% that your ex will put the moves on you. So if you're not sure of his motives you're in denial. And yes if something happened its cheating. If you guys consider yourself BF/GF and you do something with someone else its cheating. Why not find something out from the guy you're seeing and see if you two still want to stay together before you put yourself in a situation to hook up with someone else.? It's kinda weird that you guys haven't been speaking for two weeks. Settle the old before you move on to the new. Then no one can hurt or used. Link to post Share on other sites
Bryanp Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 It seems pretty obvious that you would not be surprised if you end up having sex with your ex. My question to you is would it bother you if the guy you have been seeing for two months went over to his ex girlfriend's house to watch a movie and ended up having sex with her? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 9, 2007 Share Posted November 9, 2007 If you're asking, more than likely there's a reason for your concern. If there's cause for ambiguity in your dating/relationship with the new guy, why not talk to him about it and see where he stands. If he's not into an exclusive relationship, you have nothing to be concerned about. Link to post Share on other sites
Racquel Colette Posted November 16, 2007 Share Posted November 16, 2007 Sorry, but this guy you're dating told you it is cool with him if you screw other guys? This doesn't sound like a man who is into you. He doesn't give a rat's who you're screwing! Think about it, if he doesn't care who you're screwing, HE'S out screwing who knows who! Because it just doesn't matter to him, you don't really matter to him (except for screwing possibly and hopefully a condom is being used.) You are not bf/gf, so screw the heck out of your ex if you want. Link to post Share on other sites
Racquel Colette Posted November 23, 2007 Share Posted November 23, 2007 Hey what has happened with this? did you sleep with your ex? Link to post Share on other sites
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