bish Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Bish- Not everyone is the same person. i know statistics are numbers but people arnt numbers. if i can kick drug addiction she can kick her cheating problem. and no i am not letting her walk all over me. and on the side i am getting back together with my ex, so if i get back together with my ex i am kicking my girlfriend to the curb. its sounds sad, but she put me through too much and the only reason me and my ex broke up was cause i was in rehab. Well...looks like you have talked yourself into getting back with her...so don't know why you need us. Well...good luck anyway...some people have to learn the hard way. Link to post Share on other sites
KenzieAbsolutely Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 no i know two wrongs do not make a right. you sound pretty level-headed for a teenager. i think in a few days, you'll be thinking more clearly, and you may realize that at your age, these things may happen time and time again. heck, at any age these things happen! my point is, you think you love her now, but in time you may see it differently. i think you could offer some worthy girl a lot, and your current girlfriend is just not worthy. even if you want to be with her, getting back with her immediately is not going to show her that she can't do this to you again. it will show her that you will take her back no matter what she does to you, and i doubt you feel that way. it's not just about your feelings for her, it's about your feelings for each other, and hers are a little different than yours, no matter what she says about her 'mistake.' here's to moving on to better things. ditch the cheater, see other girls, or don't--stay single for a while, someone else will come your way. chin up. Link to post Share on other sites
Nevermind Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Bish- Not everyone is the same person. i know statistics are numbers but people arnt numbers. if i can kick drug addiction she can kick her cheating problem. and no i am not letting her walk all over me. and on the side i am getting back together with my ex, so if i get back together with my ex i am kicking my girlfriend to the curb. its sounds sad, but she put me through too much and the only reason me and my ex broke up was cause i was in rehab. Uhm. So you are saying to your girlfriend that you are over it, but you secretly try to get back with your ex. Without telling your now girlfriend. Basically you are a cheater, too. If you do not want to be with your girlfriend, end it. Don't try to get with other girls while in a relationship. As you said: 2 wrongs do not make one right. Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustinCass01 Posted November 17, 2007 Author Share Posted November 17, 2007 Uhm. So you are saying to your girlfriend that you are over it, but you secretly try to get back with your ex. Without telling your now girlfriend. Basically you are a cheater, too. If you do not want to be with your girlfriend, end it. Don't try to get with other girls while in a relationship. As you said: 2 wrongs do not make one right. im considering getting back with her cause we ended on good terms Link to post Share on other sites
Author JustinCass01 Posted November 18, 2007 Author Share Posted November 18, 2007 Thats not the easy way out of the problem right now hun,Don't Ya know there are plenty of fish in the sea,and ones that would worship you(just go find one) Your a good person don't throw your life away on booze,I promise is you do you will pay for that. Its bad ****. I also promise you will find another,we care here,dont drink yourself to death k,and try no to drink and drive k? Your a good kid with feelings woman like that;) ya i wouldd nevvveerrr drink and drive. i am not stupid haha. Link to post Share on other sites
masbirgelreturns Posted November 25, 2007 Share Posted November 25, 2007 My girlfriend recently moved to another state do to school, the second month she cheated on me because she was also "drunk". I forgave her and it went what I thought was good for another 3 months until I found out from a good friend that also goes to the same school as her that she had cheated on me again. Im still deeply inlove with this girl but she just doesnt make good decisions she tells me how sorry she is and that it will never happen again and I believe her. Its hard to have a LD especially if you really love this person, knowing you cant do anything to stop her from cheating is a horrible feeling. What I did and what you should do is talk with her and tell her your feelings and emotions are not something to be played with and if she cant be with just you it would be better to just take a break and see other people. Who knows, a couple years from now you could meet up and hit it off all over again! Link to post Share on other sites
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