White Flower Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Cobra wrote: Ughh... Stop making me translate this! ? I do not know if it is the truth, it is my truth. ? Sorry, you are a good translater, though;). I thought most of it was easily translated enough so I didn't translate. It was a good point TC33 made. We cannot go around punishing. Healing, learning, and growing is what is needed. Bish wants people to be punished by others and TC wants us to learn our own lessons. We certainly learn better on our own. Look at all the repeat prisoners who leave jail. And yes, that which you focus on will certainly be drawn to you. Good luck, bish. Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Please note that a true fool, is the person who allows himself to be fooled. I signed up for that once. Link to post Share on other sites
Tomcat33 Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I signed up for that once. I hear you White Flowr!! We all did at one point of another, but man oh man over my dead body is my faith in humanity going to be tarnished because I let my guard down once and it hurt like a btch. You pick yourself up you dust off the debris and you keep on truckin'. Life has no guarantees, pain is pretty much guaranteed and if you want to avoid it you might as well be dead. Link to post Share on other sites
bish Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 Well there is a big difference in allowing oneself to be fooled with walking around looking to be cheated. Trust is something that is earned yes, but to go around with this ultra shield like everyone is out to fool you, utlimately will bring you nothing but misery. And by the sounds of it you can tell who the miserable people are, they simply cannot hide it. A shield is nothing more than a big neon sign for fear. And fear is fine we all have it but when it stops you from enjoying life then it is time to revisit why you are so intent of not being fooled. The same hurt you are trying to avoid you are creating for yourself. so if I understand you correctly....adopting a cheat once and your out policy is fear and will hurt me? hmmmm..... Link to post Share on other sites
White Flower Posted November 17, 2007 Share Posted November 17, 2007 I hear you White Flowr!! We all did at one point of another, but man oh man over my dead body is my faith in humanity going to be tarnished because I let my guard down once and it hurt like a btch. You pick yourself up you dust off the debris and you keep on truckin'. Life has no guarantees, pain is pretty much guaranteed and if you want to avoid it you might as well be dead. Actually, you're right. To tell you the truth, I went in eyes wide open. I knew I was never going to ask for exclusivity and I knew I would eventually have to walk away. I knew I would experience pain and I knew the pain would make me stronger. So yes, I really did sign up for it! But, I didn't know just how painful it would be. I won't be going this route again, but I am wiser and stronger for it. Link to post Share on other sites
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