bigheartkindsoul Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 not being called a chick is a good start!!! Women as we shall hence forth be known, like allsorts and differs from women to women some are into all girlie things, some are into more blokey things, some are a mixture and some just like the netural things. I like food, cinema, top gear, fast cars, snooker, football, shopping, underwear, shoes, clothes in general, make up, theme parks the more extreme the better, holidays, walks in the park/countryside, dancing, having a good laugh most of all. Link to post Share on other sites
finalf72 Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 dude, heres all u need to know if u want a girl... just do ur own thing, get into hobbys that u want to do, and most importantly, be urself. dont say things that u dont mean either. and listen. u gotta be a good listener, or else ur conversations will go poop. also take care of urself. stay healthy, eat well, sleep well, excersize, and i gaurantee within 2 months u will look better, and feel better, and itll show around work and that will turn heads. trust me on that. also , good grooming standards. would u want a girl that dosnt shower and has bad breath? u have to wear clean clothes, shower everyday, brush ur teeth, SHAVE. hate to say it, but beards only look good with a style. if it matches ur style, then yea, but generally, if in doubt, shave it. (ur face) and smell, well thats a plus. wear a cologne u think smells nice. but not all the time though. do all that, and u will atract a female. trust me. i know, cuz i do these things, and i do these things without wanting to get a girl, i did all those things cuz i wanted to start takin more care of myself. and b4 i knew it, i got a girlfriend, and she asked ME out... BASICALLY ::: TO SUMARIZE ::: take good care of urself. look clean and neat. cuz not only will u feel better, and ur life and personal relationships will improve, it will turn heads. Link to post Share on other sites
Blue Eyed Brain Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Shower, combed hair, nice look (clothes should match and be free of stains). Clothes also should be updated. Don't forget to smile (but not like a stalker). You'll do fine..... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Okay, so I'm thinking of taking up some sort of hobby or something, like music, a sport or an outdoor activity? But it got me to thinking, what do chicks find really cool in a guy. Music? Culinary skill? Outdoor stuff like kayaking? Other ideas? Okay!! How about all of the above? Athlete, culinary skills, musician, intellectual, poet/writer, artist (can be in any medium like photography or drawing), mechanic/car enthusiast, romantic, financially secure in a high-profile job at the top of the foodchain, amazing lover and drop-dead gorgeous with a perfect body. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Okay!! How about all of the above? Athlete, culinary skills, musician, intellectual, poet/writer, artist (can be in any medium like photography or drawing), mechanic/car enthusiast, romantic, financially secure in a high-profile job at the top of the foodchain, amazing lover and drop-dead gorgeous with a perfect body. Is it really too much to ask? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Is it really too much to ask? He did ask, after all... Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 He did ask, after all... I wonder if such a person actually exists... you know, one who isn't a complete and utter *******? Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 I wonder if such a person actually exists... you know, one who isn't a complete and utter *******? I've found a few who are either close or equal to it, so yes, they do exist. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 I've found a few who are either close or equal to it, so yes, they do exist. Yes, but you're smoking hot so have no trouble attacting them Don't mind me, I'm just in a weird mood Link to post Share on other sites
underpants Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 For me, I don't want physical perfection. I know all too well that this desire would be hypocritical. Besides, flaws are fun to explore. Don't be fooled, physical flaws will happen, eventually, to all of us. I would like someone who strives to take care of themseves, has a sense of humor, and to which we can both hold each other up as well as laugh with each other (whilst extending a hand) when (together or seperately) fall down in the simpliest of ways. Make sense? I guess I am looking for a best friend and a lover ( now I sound like a silly country song and I don't care for country songs). Oh well, I guess I will bless the day I discover.... Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Yes, but you're smoking hot so have no trouble attacting them Don't mind me, I'm just in a weird mood No problem, so am I. Looks are so transient. While I may appeal to some, I don't appeal to everyone. I know you intended it as a compliment but it makes me sad. Notice it's the last thing on my list? Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 No problem, so am I. Looks are so transient. While I may appeal to some, I don't appeal to everyone. I know you intended it as a compliment but it makes me sad. Notice it's the last thing on my list? Yeah, I know. Aww don't be sad hun. I admire you that you do truthfully rate personality before looks. Most people won't admit it but they find the physical to be the most important thing. Hope you know I didn't mean it in a bad way, I'm just kinda down today Link to post Share on other sites
squeak Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 I *dig* (ahem) when I like someone and they are really really sweet and silly and do lots of stuff for me but stopping short-really-I mean it- must stop short of: coming off as slavish or scarily obsessed or pathetic As for hobbies? Women care as much about a guy having hobbies as guys care about what a woman's career choice is! Which means: they don't. Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Yeah, I know. Aww don't be sad hun. I admire you that you do truthfully rate personality before looks. Most people won't admit it but they find the physical to be the most important thing. Hope you know I didn't mean it in a bad way, I'm just kinda down today Once again, no issues. I know you intended it as a compliment. It's one of my issues. While I'll never claim to be a nice person or angel inside, I've got a helluva lot more to offer than an external shell. You've got some decisions to make. Just make sure that whatever you choose, you do it with full knowledge and no regrets. Link to post Share on other sites
Ocean-Blue Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 For me, I don't want physical perfection. I know all too well that this desire would be hypocritical. Besides, flaws are fun to explore. Don't be fooled, physical flaws will happen, eventually, to all of us. I would like someone who strives to take care of themseves, has a sense of humor, and to which we can both hold each other up as well as laugh with each other (whilst extending a hand) when (together or seperately) fall down in the simpliest of ways. Make sense? I guess I am looking for a best friend and a lover ( now I sound like a silly country song and I don't care for country songs). Oh well, I guess I will bless the day I discover.... Is it wrong that I fell in love with Matt Damon's character in Good Will Hunting? Perfection is overrated and not very appealing. Who wants a perfectly coiffed man when you can have something more real with that flawed but fabulous guy who sells newspapers down the road? Link to post Share on other sites
finalf72 Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 u can learn how to do something thru advice, sure, but the best way to learn is trial by error. Link to post Share on other sites
finalf72 Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 do u really want to learn what women want and do it?? i mean look at this thread! a whole bunch of girls out there just told u what they want. how THEY want YOU to be! i say F that. but by all means, man, if u wana impressis girls, and do something and become something else just to impressess someone else, go ahead. cuz really, thats what ur doing. showin off to ppl u dont know. cuz really, girls are just another person. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted November 13, 2007 Share Posted November 13, 2007 Okay, so I'm thinking of taking up some sort of hobby or something, like music, a sport or an outdoor activity? But it got me to thinking, what do chicks find really cool in a guy. Music? Culinary skill? Outdoor stuff like kayaking? Other ideas? All of the above. Oh, AJ. I love you just the way you are. Link to post Share on other sites
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