buddhagirl Posted November 11, 2007 Share Posted November 11, 2007 Ok here goes my pathetic story. Me and my bf have been together for 3 years. We have lived together in the past but decided it would be better for now that we do not. We have had some rough times but areor should I say were doing better. I was feeling suspicious becuase he was so protective of his phone. So I looked. Curiosity killed the cat! I called the unprogrammed number I found and it was a 17 year old girl that he has been sleeping with for two months. He was asking her to hang out while standing in my living room! I have never felt these emotions before. I love him so deeply and yet I hate him. WHat doI do? Is it fixable? Any advice? Link to post Share on other sites
MatsumeKazuo Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 I suggest you think about calling it quits. You cant try and make a relationship work with a person that is cheating on you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author buddhagirl Posted November 12, 2007 Author Share Posted November 12, 2007 I think I am crazy because I still want to make it work. If I could know that he wanted to fix this we could do it. I hate being this pathetic. Link to post Share on other sites
littlekitty Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 First you need to talk to him about this. Do you know what he wants yet? You can't fix it for the both of you, if he doesn't want to. I think you need to think seriously if you want to stay with this man. You say you've had some rough times. So rough you aren't even living together anymore. And now he's been cheating on you for 2 months. Is there really anything there worth saving? Link to post Share on other sites
cj1988 Posted November 12, 2007 Share Posted November 12, 2007 Men are so like that ! If they think they have something else, what really matters is just that THEMSELVES. They do not care what they do or who they hurt as long as they are getting their EGO stroked. Let him go, he will try to come back, but by then you will be over it and will have moved on! You will have the last laugh ! Link to post Share on other sites
Author buddhagirl Posted November 13, 2007 Author Share Posted November 13, 2007 He cries and says he wants to work on it. I never thought he was capable of this. Rough times never meant not trusting him. I knew I always had that at least but now i feel like I don't even know who he is. I have been having really bad anxiety. I have put so much into it I can't let it go. Do you know the feeling? Link to post Share on other sites
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