ShareHer Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Originally posted by sinner The fun always ends... Well, no matter what lifestyle choice one makes, whether it's a swinging one or a more conventional one, the fun always ends ... because we die. No one gets out alive. We might as well enjoy ourselves while we're here. Link to post Share on other sites
sinner Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 No one gets out alive. We might as well enjoy ourselves while we're here. That's the other horn of the dilemma upon which I'm impaled. The eternal struggle within my soul between hedonism (represented by ShareHer) and a stoic restraint and responsibility (represented by Moose and so many others on these Boards). Link to post Share on other sites
Moose Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Sinner, Your soul could be at peace with this you know. I can tell from your handle that you've been in search of it for a while. I wish you luck and also bestow a warning, you have to live by blind faith to live a life like mine, the ways of the world will ultimatly destroy your soul. Don't let your choice fall on the wrong side, you will regret it in the here and now and in the afterlife. Best wishes, Moose Link to post Share on other sites
ShareHer Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Sinner, "I can tell from your handle that you've" ummmm probably had some fun in your life! I have no fear of what, if anything is to follow after this life. But, if the born again christians are right and if you do accept JC as your savior that you will be saved, then you have nothing to worry about with the few "sins" I'm sure you've committed. Look on the bright side. John Wayne Gacy, the infamous Killer Clown, murdered more than 30 boys and men. No worries, he went to prison and he found JC there! He accepted JC as his savior and poof! The Killer Clown was saved and went to heaven! Sin? Do the "sins" you've committed measure up with those committed by Gacy? No? I didn't think so. You've got nothing to worry about. So go out and have a little fun! Link to post Share on other sites
HoldOn Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 In the long run, you gain more happiness by doing the RIGHT thing, instead of whatever feels good at the moment. Link to post Share on other sites
ShareHer Posted July 28, 2004 Share Posted July 28, 2004 Originally posted by HoldOn In the long run, you gain more happiness by doing the RIGHT thing, instead of whatever feels good at the moment. I agree with that. But, who is to decide what the "RIGHT" thing is? To me, it's the right thing if it feels good at the moment (as well as the following moment, and the one after that) AND no one else gets hurt. It was my decision not to let a bunch of religious radicals from a couple of thousand years ago determine what is right and what is wrong for me. How are you doing today HoldOn? Link to post Share on other sites
steelcity Posted February 6, 2005 Share Posted February 6, 2005 My wife and I have been married for 15 years. When I met her, she was in an intimate relationship with a man she knew from high school. She was honest about it then, and as we became closer I made it clear that she need not give him up. They are friends and still lovers. It's not "just sex" - they care about each other. But it doesn't diminish her love for me as demonstrated by her devotion. I am glad that she has others, a family and a lover, to care for her. Whether a non-exclusive relationship of any type can work depends on honesty. Honesty not only with one's partner, but with yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
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