fenderrox Posted May 21, 2003 Share Posted May 21, 2003 Hi I need some advice! Ive known this girl for about one year, and never really thought of her as more than a friend until about a week ago. First of all let me describe her, she has a 4.0gpa incredibly nice and drop dead gorgeous. Ive always thought of her as "out of my league" so she gradually became one of my best friends, someone that i can talk to about anything and consult my problems with. Now to the point, she has had many boyfriends in the past year, and she talks to me about what she likes in them and what she doesnt like. I never really thought about i much until i was tring to figure out what kind of guy she really wants, someone who will make her happy. So i started going through the list: hes gotta be nice, funny, smart, etc... I thought hey shewants someone kinda like me. the more i thought about it i came to the conclusion, well why not me? I asked my sister for advice on wat i should do, because they are best friends, she told me that i should talk to the girl. She also told me that when i first met the Girl she had a crush on me. So, i told her that i liked her, (when she was currently in a relationship, bad move, I know.) and i got and answer that kinda confused me. She first told me that she was glad that i told her, and then she said that she used to have a crush on me, and then she said that she never thought of me in that way. I don't know wat i should do. She recently broke up with her boyfriend because he was a jerk, (like i told her, because she always asks me fo advice) and now i dont know if i should do anything or just let it go. Please help! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 21, 2003 Share Posted May 21, 2003 Well, if she's over the boyfriend and since the two of you are such close friends, you ought to just ask her what she thinks about dating you on a trial basis. Let her know that she's everything you could possibly want in a lady...and she is your best friend...and you feel you could be just what she is looking for in a guy. Assure her that if the two of you did start dating and it didn't work out, that you would be mature enough to be sure it didn't affect the friendship. See what she says. She worst thing she can do is shoot you! Link to post Share on other sites
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