Linda01 Posted May 21, 2003 Share Posted May 21, 2003 I'm sorry if this will be too long...but i need your oppinion about my situation... Here it is...My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and a half..things were perfect at first..but little by little he started looosing interest in me and our relationship...All he cared about was his computer....and he didnt even let me go near it. He said its nothing..just "work"..but he seemed very anxious and happy to do that "work".Until one day i saw some chat windows open on his computer screen..he said its nothing..again....So i decided to put an end to all those doubts and get a spy software...so i could watch his every move.I was able to see everything he was typing....every screen shot with every window he would open...even when i wasnt there.And, with the help of this software i saw my boyfriend talking intimate things with other people and, to my shock, even having cybersex with few women. Now i have all the evidence i need, but i do love this guy....what do you think i should do now? Please, let me know your oppinion or if you have a similar situation, here...or in my email address Thank you :-) Linda Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 21, 2003 Share Posted May 21, 2003 If you guy is engaging in cybersex, he is not being loyal to the relationship. This calls for dramatic action. Right now, you have absolutely nothing to lose. You have a relationship that is fraudulent, deceitful and crumbling. Tell him you no longer want to be in a relationship where everything isn't out in the open. Tell him you want to be able to share his computer with him. If he says no, then let him know everything you know about his adventures on the Internet. Then give him your timetable for getting out of his life. I see nothing to be gained in a relationship with a man who involves himself with other women...on the Internet or anywhere else. Link to post Share on other sites
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