OWs: Why is your MM cheating on his W with you??

[Woggle]

There are all types of people who get bored with their partners but I would bet a lot pf money that half the OW would quickly lose interest if they actually got everything they wanted.

[NoIDidn't]

I doubt very seriously that twisted is a BW trying to stir things up. Why is it hard to believe that some OW do indeed fit the stereotypes?

 

Her posts read like another poster here. Why can't twisted be OW that's just extremely selfish and self-centered?

 

They do exist.

 

I do think that twisted could be a troll. But she'll have to post more to show that. BellaBaby had everyone going for weeks/months. But no one ever accused her of being a BW.

 

Now if anything hurts the BSs here, its the constant thought that all trolls must be one of them. One must have a pretty limited view of the world to only think of people in terms of OP and BSs. That's just ridiculous.

[Lyssa]

No doubt there are OW like Twisted out there - point is it's immature and selfish. Not making it easier for both OW and BS. When things are fine and dandy, there will always be someone to stir things up.

[twistedapart1]

The ignorance here is astonishing. It's always the "BS" that are saints. I'm sorry, but since you don't know the situation in its entirety or the character of the wife in question, you really have no rightful ability to comment on the matter regarding the "poor wife".

Good luck with your bitterness and any other deep-seeded problems many of you obviously have.

Since my mm's mental health is deteriorating, I'll in my best power try to help him dissolve this sham of a marriage by pushing him into what he knows should be done, but is only too fearful to initiate.

[NoIDidn't]

No doubt there are OW like Twisted out there - point is it's immature and selfish. Not making it easier for both OW and BS. When things are fine and dandy, there will always be someone to stir things up.

 

I agree that its immature and selfish to be a troll. But to state that it must be a "bitter BS" is just as immature. There will always be someone to stir things up, but the whole "its a BS" thing is a bunch of bull.

 

A lot of times, the trolls are just people that have read here for a while and decide that ALL of the posters are fools and want to play with them. Just because this forum says "OW/OM" doesn't mean that the trolls are BSs.

 

Again, to think so is really more indicative of limited reasoning. Not trying to offend anyone, JMHO.

[NoIDidn't]

The ignorance here is astonishing. It's always the "BS" that are saints. I'm sorry, but since you don't know the situation in its entirety or the character of the wife in question, you really have no rightful ability to comment on the matter regarding the "poor wife".

Good luck with your bitterness and any other deep-seeded problems many of you obviously have.

Since my mm's mental health is deteriorating, I'll in my best power try to help him dissolve this sham of a marriage by pushing him into what he knows should be done, but is only too fearful to initiate.

 

Its easy to assume that the BS is a saint when the OP posts such nasty things about them.

 

Your MMs mental health could be deteriorating because he is living a double life and his lies to you and his W are beginning to confuse even him.

 

Good luck with "pushing" him into a decision. Hope having a child isn't your "method".

[Woggle]

People that get cheated on usually don't deserve it while people who would deserve to get cheated on usually have a spouse that treats them like gold and would never cheat.