Sunchine Posted May 21, 2003 Share Posted May 21, 2003 My ex and I have been apart for 5 months now. We have managed to maintain a friendship. But I want him as my man. I need suggestions. We broke up cause he felt he wasn't getting enough space. He feels that since we lived togther and slept together it didn't matter he if was out all day and night. I don't mind him being with his friends but make quality time for me too. How can I prove to him that I don't mind him going out as long as he is making time for me also. Please help me, I love him a lot. My life is not the same without him. Sunchine fading away! Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 21, 2003 Share Posted May 21, 2003 YOU WRITE: "How can I prove to him that I don't mind him going out as long as he is making time for me also." You can't prove that to him. You simply have to advise him of your feelings. If after that he still doesn't make time for you then I think he's showing you where his priorities are. I think it's extremely generous of you to give him the freedom to be out all nightl. Most women wouldn't be OK with that at all. I don't care how much you think you love the guy, it doesn't sound like he's putting you very far up there in importance. If he's going out all night with the guys, it's obvious he hasn't grown up yet. Go find yourself a MAN! Link to post Share on other sites
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