cocods13 Posted November 14, 2007 Share Posted November 14, 2007 Please, if you have had the experience of being cheated on and giving him or her a second chance........how did they earn your trust back? I just dont beleive right now it is possible in my situation but would love to hear from people where the cheater eventually made things right. Link to post Share on other sites
zilverenvlinder Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 Well. Mine won me back, but only for a few months. Even if you do win them back, it will be short and sweet and won't last long. But hey. Maybe it will work for you. Give them your cell phone bill every month, your password to your e-mail or that godawful evil devil creation Myspace, and your word. Call the person you cheated on them with, put them on speaker phone, and let your SO listen. Tell that person you do not wish to remain friends with them and are cutting off all contact. Keep your word. And remember, NEVER F*CK UP AGAIN. Also, make sure they never have to buy your cheating ass anything. That includes birthday presents, meals, movie tickets, etc, for at least a couple of months. Do not expect birthday or Christmas presents. Link to post Share on other sites
zilverenvlinder Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 Ooops, sorry cocods! I thought you were the cheater but after reading your second post realized that it's different! Cocods, I promise, even if he does come CRAWLING back, you will NEVER trust him again and never be happy. I promise. It will eat away at you and you will never love him like you used to. I know from experience. I made the horrible mistake of letting my fiance move in with me one month after he cheated on me. I repressed it. Then, it started flooding back. And now I feel sick with loathing and have to see his face every day. I know you miss him now, but it will get better. Success is the greatest revenge. Find a hot guy with money. Link to post Share on other sites
jj2007 Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 He became an open book. He calls me throughout the day to let me know of his plans and whereabouts if they change. I can get ahold of him anytime I need to. He tells me how stupid he feels about doing what he did and that he is so lucky to be given another chance. I still think about it, I think it will always be in the back of my mind. That is why I told him I needed to be able to contact him anytime because if I can't get in touch with him, I would automatically think he was out with that whore again. So far, he has done everything I asked without fail. But I will never feel the same way about him and it will take a long time, if ever, for me to trust him again. Hope this helps and I am so sorry about what you are going through. Link to post Share on other sites
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