WTH - Ex contacts me after 2mths NC...and hides new relationship..

[jdluz]

She meets this guy and told about him, that he made a pass at her when she went to the disco...one week later she demands to see everything from my phone, i said no, since i never asked her that, and i have private stuff about my family in there. So she broke it off and said that it would never be the same since she was sure i was hidding something and that she will be hell to me if she stays. Two days later she wants me back...i didnt go right away so she pursued me till i let me go again. But since then she was so disrespectfull..and i know i was constantly lied to...i could fell being replaced...two months later i couldnt take it anymore and i broke-up, she didnt seem to care...two weeks later shes in a relatioship with this guy, i phoned her when i knew about it...and before i told her something she treated me really bad..so i went NC..

 

Two months pass..and i get a message from her..asking about me...then she talks to me in IM (offline for 4 moths before never much into this stuff), and passes to my house to get some stuff...i went cool with it..i thought maybe the relationship its over...so we get more intimate in conversations..she says she still likes me...and i talk about maybe a second chance...and she sudenlly dont want to talk no more...

 

Then one week later i know she is still in the relationship with the other guy, i called her to know WTH is this now contacting me and she is in a relationship...then she says she just wants to be friends..that she is going to get married...and he does everything for her...i know this guy is a doorman at a disco and a womenizer...and she says...well maybe im the special one he was waiting..besides you had the power to broke my heart...he doesnt..

 

WTH...she is saying to my face she doesnt love this guy...she said that she still likes me...but the guy do everything for her..and its being super cool to be adored..and is not going to let go off this....and she was going to prove me that with her is going to be very different. After that day she never replyed to me again in IM...

 

 

She has BPD personality so i was like relieved that it ended...but i really loved her...but after 2months NC this brought me to ground zero again...i was going to be a backup so it seems...but she didnt know i knew who she was dating so she had to cut me off again...