qwertyu Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 anyone here got a second chance with their ex? care to share? thoughts on my situation? does it look like theres any chances? i havent been able to get over my ex (broke up for close to 2 months now, have only met twice in 2 mths) eventhough we've been in NC/LC (if he decides to meet me next week, it'd be 4-5 weeks since we last saw each other), the last time we met, he contacted me a week later asking me how i was doing etc, exchanged a few msges, NC-ed again, next weekend he went overseas (and I STUPIDLY called him cos i rly wanted to find out if he was overseas but i quickly put down when i heard the ringtone), he texted me & said "you called?" i didnt reply. he text-ed again an hour later "looking for me?" i replied "i think i called by accident! sorry" I SHLD HAVE STOPPED THERE but i caved in & said me: "hey do you wna go for dinner tmr?" (altho i knew he was overseas but he didnt tell me, im not supposed to know, i just happened to find out. i dont know what made me so stubborn to not believe it, cos i really couldnt believe he'd go overseas ALONE out of the blue). him: "hey im overseas now, sorry. doubt i can make it" me (pretending): woah serious? where are you & who are you with? he didnt reply & although he's back he hasnt contacted me since. the two times we met up it was pretty alright (i dont consider the first one cos we met for a VERY short while & we were both still emotional then), the second meeting, i reckon he had a pretty good time w me. towards the end of dinner, i just told him there are some things i wna ask & i said "do you really not see us being tog in the future anymore?" which he replied "he wldnt rule out the possibility but the chances of us getting back tog is the same as us not getting back" he went further on by saying that he thinks we were both not mature enough in handling the r/p & even if i felt mature now, he dont think he is mature enough & he wants a break. he says if we were both more ready in e future, we cld get back tog but the future is too uncertain cos someone else might come along etc. i didnt argue. i just nodded & said ok. how does the situation sound like? Link to post Share on other sites
birdie Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 sounds like he doesn't want to get back with you. sorry Link to post Share on other sites
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