Sw3etdev1L Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 Ok,so time passed. Two months ago we broke up...actually I broke up with him because I noticed he had the intentions of doing so...Now, I thought we ended up in good terms. The first time I saw him after breaking up, he erased me from facebook, one week and a half later I called hiim to see why he had done that and he llied by telling me he didn't do it. Oh well, so I thought "we can still be friends". Then, I called him and the cell phone didn't answer. The day later I called him and he didn't answer again so I left a message in his answering machine saying I would like to go out for a coffee with him or something as friends to chat and stuff. But I feel he is evading me, like running away from me...When I called the first time he told me his best friend had broke up with his girlfriend so I said he must be devastated and he send me an indirect "well, when things end and it is best for both people it is better to leave it that way"..And I perfectly agreed. Because my intentions with him are not to go back together so I don't get why after having spoke on the phone, he doesn't answer me and stuff. I feel so bad about his behaviour, and Obviously I am not a stalker, I am just gonna let things pass and stop calling him. And next time I see him I will just pretend I didn't even look at him because he is being rude. Link to post Share on other sites
heartoutside Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 he's not being rude, he's trying to move on. He was probably hurt by the break up and having you as a friend on facebook wasn't making it easier for him to move on. I speak from experience, I erased my ex from facebook and myspace because I couldn't stand watching her new life with her new bf unfold in front of me. It also allowed me to get some space and not feel the temptation to look at her page. I'm not saying you two can't be friends down the road, but I think right now he's trying to get space and heal a little. Link to post Share on other sites
Enema Posted November 15, 2007 Share Posted November 15, 2007 He doesn't want to be your friend, but it's hard for him to say... understandably. Just let it go and move on, if he wants to contact you he will. Loved this line too: "actually I broke up with him because I noticed he had the intentions of doing so" ... oh, bravo. Link to post Share on other sites
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