You're not going to agree with me but we're all losers here

[samQ2005]

It's not a question of confidence or self esteem. It's not about being depressed. Somethings are just meant to be. Some people are born ugly like you and me and nothing is going to change that.

 

In today's world no good looking boy/girl will want to go out with an ugly person. FACT. If someone tells you something different, they're not being honest, you may as well bury your head in the sand.

 

...and don't tell me that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There's shared view on who's ugly and who's not. Life sucks BIG time.

 

The brutal truth in life is that if you're not born with 'it' you will go down the road of failure and misery.

 

If you believe in God, then at least you have something spiritual to comfort you knowing that "this is just a test".

 

For some who don't believe because they're not convinced by this utterly unfair ridiculous test then I'm afraid you just have to accept life as it is. Yeh it's sh*t but you have no choice and you have to get on with it. You have to go to work 9 - 5 everyday in a useless underpaid job with no hope of being promoted, coz you were born stupid and ugly. Then you go back home and sit alone while stuffing your face in junk food. You watch some porn, jack off then go to sleep. You have no g/f, no friends. infact all your friends are successful with beautiful wives and g/fs. Your misery is compounded, you eat more, you get fatter, uglier and older. You get caught in a vicious cycle that you can't get out of and before you know it, your life is f*cking over. REST in F*CKING AGONY.

 

Life is gonna stay sh*t for most of us and NO, there is no hope, it is a dead end, we've been f*cked since we were born coz our parents were ugly. Don't make the same mistake and give birth to kids who are gonna inherit your loser ugly genes.

 

Suicide ain't an option coz you're gonna upset some people around you. So in the meantime, lets all suffer together and watch the good looking people with envy and jealousy living their life happily and successfully while they're laughing at us.

 

Goodluck to you all as I feel sorry for you. Don't feel sorry for me though coz i'm past that stage. Just when you think you hit rock bottom, you go down another level. This is a never ending pit of despair and failure until you die alone. No one will know that you died because everyone lives their lives without you. They don't need you, a dishwasher is more important than you, you are nothing, you don't exist.

 

goodnight

[wizer]

I don't agree.

 

I've seen good looking chicks with ugly guys and vice versa. Just because you are ugly and have nothing to offer with your personality to compensate, doesn't mean EVERYONE is that way. Go to some public places and take a good look at the couples you see. There are huge mismatches, you just refuse to see them because you are striking out and you are looking to justify your position as being "out of your hands" and "not your fault" because life sucks.

[samQ2005]

I don't agree.

 

I've seen good looking chicks with ugly guys and vice versa. Just because you are ugly and have nothing to offer with your personality to compensate, doesn't mean EVERYONE is that way. Go to some public places and take a good look at the couples you see. There are huge mismatches, you just refuse to see them because you are striking out and you are looking to justify your position as being "out of your hands" and "not your fault" because life sucks.

 

maybe you're trying to convince yourself by looking at one or two examples in a billion.

 

if only you were right though, Sadly not.

[wizer]

maybe you're trying to convince yourself by looking at one or two examples in a billion.

 

if only you were right though, Sadly not.

 

The percentages aren't quite that high. They're well within the managable range, if you change your attitude and start putting the odds more in your favor.

 

Or...just go out with ugly girls and stock up on paper bags the next time you're in the supermarket.

[samQ2005]

well, there's a perfect example of people trying to offer advice to ugly people.

 

"go out with ugly girls and stock up on paper bags the next time you're in the supermarket. "

 

genius

[wizer]

well, there's a perfect example of people trying to offer advice to ugly people.

 

"go out with ugly girls and stock up on paper bags the next time you're in the supermarket. "

 

genius

 

Aw, gee. Thanks.

[reboot]

Ugly people need love too.

[wizer]

Once the lights are off we all look the same.

[bigheartkindsoul]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and just because someone might not be what is conventionally beautiful on the outside doesn't mean they do not get more attractive once you see how beautiful they are on the inside.

[reboot]

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and just because someone might not be what is conventionally beautiful on the outside doesn't mean they do not get more attractive once you see how beautiful they are on the inside.

Do you believe what you just said?

 

If so, READ IT TO YOURSELF!

[wizer]

Do you believe what you just said?

 

If so, READ IT TO YOURSELF!

 

I dunno, I read it. It makes sense, even if it doesn't apply to those who see conventional beauty as an absolute requirement.

[bigheartkindsoul]

Do you believe what you just said?

 

If so, READ IT TO YOURSELF!

 

Yes point taken tee hee hee

[Lishy]

who is ugly?

 

What is ugly to one person may be pure beauty to another!

[marlena]

I knew a man who I thought was so ugly. I knew him for years. One day I was feeling very lonely and he asked me out on a date. I decided to accept. This is the man I fell madly in love with! When it ended, I thought I was dying!

[RecordProducer]

Your post is heart-breaking, because I realize that many people feel like this and it ultimately affects the way they live their lives. I suggest you see "Mr. Magorian's Wonder Emporium" if you can "read" deep messages. I also recommend the "Alchemist" of Paulo Coelho. This movie and the book (which have nothing to do with each other) are about discovering what you have and how you can find happiness in it. Everybody I know told me that the book changed their life, so I bought it, and - it changed my life, too. You don't have to reach too far in order to touch the stars; the star is right there in your heart.

 

I also want to quote a very good friend of mine, a wise, experienced lady who told me: "[sIZE=2]You say you don't have a choice but that's not true. Unless you are being held prisoner, you are FREE to exercise your will and power over your own life and destiny. Often the prison we build is of our own making. Often, fear of the unknown is what keeps us in that prison. This is only human. We've all done it at some point in our lives. Only you have the key to that prison. One day soon, I am sure, you will defuse the fog and the answers you have been looking for will magically appear before your very own eyes."

[/sIZE]

Some things are just meant to be.

And many things are NOT - let's focus on those!

 

Some people are born ugly like you and me and nothing is going to change that.

When you are letting yourself get fatter and fatter, you're making a big change - for the worse.

 

In today's world no good looking boy/girl will want to go out with an ugly person. FACT. If someone tells you something different, they're not being honest, you may as well bury your head in the sand.

I see that YOU don't want to go with a person who is not good-looking, so it lowers your chances to ever go out with someone.

 

...and don't tell me that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. There's shared view on who's ugly and who's not. Life sucks BIG time.

Yes, some people are objectively average-looking, but YOU are letting this fact control your whole life. You don't settle for less than a beautiful woman, so expect disappointment or change your goals.

 

You have to go to work 9 - 5 everyday in a useless underpaid job with no hope of being promoted, coz you were born stupid and ugly. Then you go back home and sit alone while stuffing your face in junk food. You watch some porn, jack off then go to sleep. You have no g/f, no friends.

Don't you have any interests, hobbies, passions? Yes, life is miserable when you don't need anything but sex with a hot girl. Nobody can help you with your personal growth, but you. If you had certain interests in life, you would meet people and create a circle of friends. If you had ambition and passion inside you, you would explore life, seek adventure, put effort into learning something new, and extending your horizons. I don't see that anyone put you into this cage of life. I see that you choose to live like that. If your job is boring, you can find something that is more exciting. You can get training in something that interests you or even go back to school. I know many (good-looking) people that are single and lonely and this might not be their fault. However, I can't imagine my life without my intellectual curiosity, energy, sense of humor, ambition, passions, and a zest for life. Those things make my life beautiful, even when I am totally miserable and lonely.

 

Your misery is compounded, you eat more, you get fatter, uglier and older. You get caught in a vicious cycle that you can't get out of and before you know it, your life is f*cking over.

You can break this cycle, only if you want to!

[Curmudgeon]

Don't presume to speak for me. Since you obviously see yourself as a loser, you are!

 

Richard Bach had it right in his book, Illusions when he wrote, "Argue for your limitations and sure enough, they're yours!"

[IpAncA]

Sam? Are you sure you've gotten past this...cause you sure don't sound like it.

[Trialbyfire]

Sam? Are you sure you've gotten past this...cause you sure don't sound like it.

No kidding...

 

You can blame looks or you can try to make the best of what you have, both superficial or attitude towards life.

[samQ2005]

 

I also want to quote a very good friend of mine, a wise, experienced lady who told me: "[sIZE=2]You say you don't have a choice but that's not true. Unless you are being held prisoner, you are FREE to exercise your will and power over your own life and destiny. Often the prison we build is of our own making. Often, fear of the unknown is what keeps us in that prison. This is only human. We've all done it at some point in our lives. Only you have the key to that prison. One day soon, I am sure, you will defuse the fog and the answers you have been looking for will magically appear before your very own eyes."[/sIZE]

 

Like many other posts, those ideas are based on fantasy. Things don't work like that in the real world.

 

You can get rejected 3, 4, 10 times by girls but you reach a stage when you know you're being rejected for a reason.

[samQ2005]

Sam? Are you sure you've gotten past this...cause you sure don't sound like it.

 

what do you mean?

[samQ2005]

Don't presume to speak for me. Since you obviously see yourself as a loser, you are!

 

Richard Bach had it right in his book, Illusions when he wrote, "Argue for your limitations and sure enough, they're yours!"

 

 

of course not. you're here to gloat. have fun.

[RecordProducer]

Like many other posts, those ideas are based on fantasy. Things don't work like that in the real world.

 

You can get rejected 3, 4, 10 times by girls but you reach a stage when you know you're being rejected for a reason.

It's all about dating girls to you. How old are you?

 

You know, I am a good-looking woman, intelligent, educated, sincere and all that... guys turn around me all the time. I've had 3 serious relationships in my life (including two marriages) and a few casual dates; I can't put up one year of romance in total in my whole 32-year old life. Love doesn't come easily even to people who look and act like winners. I live in a sexless marriage and I am married to a man who is 18 years older than I am. A plumber just came to our house and said "Oh, i thought that was your daughter!" And I can't even get SEX! What are you talking about? What fantasy? YOU live in a fantasy that other people are drowning in passionate love and sex. No, we are not. The beautiful women you are talking about are also lonely and rejected. My husband who is average-looking has had like a gazillion women in his life, while he doesn't want to give his "precious" dick to his young, sexy wife of two years.

[Ocean-Blue]

It's all a matter of perspective. You've been rejected by women and so you think all unattractive people have a hard go at it. This is not the case. Besides, attractiveness is a VERY relative thing.

 

Thinking the way you are is only going to further confirm to your mind that you are an ugly "loser". Continue on this path and you will have alienated any prospective dates and friends who look your way.

 

Self deprecation and negativity are not desirable. No one wants to be around such people.

 

The good news is that it's all within your control. You make life what you want it to be. You attract what you want. Your reality is shaped by YOUR thinking.

 

Ultimately it is about choice. You choose to dwell in your pool of self pity. The longer you stay there, the further it'll take to attain your wants and dreams.

[sderenzi]

What do you mean I'm not going to agree? Of course I do! I'm a complete and total loser, I'm a 27 year old virgin and deserve to be shot

[allina]

I don't agree I'm not ugly and I'm not a loser