don_guyus Posted May 24, 2003 Share Posted May 24, 2003 I had to choose one of two girls at work to assist me on a project. They were both equally qualified and could easily do the job. I chose the one over the other because of her looks. She had the sexiest figure I've ever seen. She has large beautiful breast and often wears no bra. He blouse is usually buttoned so low that whenever she leans forward, she gives me a full view, nipples and all. My girlfriend doesn't know about the free show this girl gives, but she does suspect that I chose her because of her look. She says that choosing her was unethical. I myself feel that since both had the same qualifications there was nothing wrong with choosing someone to work with who was pleasing to the eye. Is she right? Was I wrong for choosing a beautiful girl to work with? Or is my girlfriend just jealous. Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 24, 2003 Share Posted May 24, 2003 1. "Is she right?" I think she has an excellent point. No woman wants to know that her boyfriend is picking girls to work on projects with because he wants to stare at their boobs, nipples and butt. Hey, you went out of your way here to give a very colorful description of what you're looking forward to staring at in the days and weeks ahead. Most women would drop you like a hot potato if they were your girlfriend and they read your post. 2. "Was I wrong for choosing a beautiful girl to work with?" Yes, since they were both qualified. Doing so made a statement, loud and clear, to your girlfriend. In a roundabout way, it said you cannot be trusted. A man who goes out of his way to stare and enjoy women's parts in this way, as part of a project, is borderline. And the fact that you knew your girlfriend would know all the details indicates you have little respect for her. It's got nothing to do with jealousy. It's got to do with decency and respect for your girlfriend. Hey, I love to look at women's parts myself...but not at the expense of a relationship I value. Burn those boob images indelibly in your mind because your relationship won't last much longer and all you'll have are memories of those boobs you elected to work with. Link to post Share on other sites
midori Posted May 24, 2003 Share Posted May 24, 2003 what message are you sending to them? to the beautiful girl, you're saying "I need help with the work and I'm glad you can do it but really you're here because you put on a good show." Perhaps she intends to put on a show, so maybe that's not going to bother her. If that's the case, you're reinforcing the idea that it's not really about the work, it's about looking sexy. That's going to help her get ahead in the world, isn't it? And what about the other woman? To her you're sayng, "I know you can do the work, but since you aren't as attractive as what's-her-face and/or you don't dress like an exhibitionist, I'm not going to choose you. Yes Virginia, you do need to sleep your way to the top. Or at least give the impression that you'd be willing to." If I was your gf, well, I wouldn't be now... Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted May 24, 2003 Share Posted May 24, 2003 ask the girl to quit exhibitionist stuff at work. tell her that bras are a must & you don't wanna see anything distracting when she bends over. that it's disrespectful of you and other employees, who're trying to focus on their work. then tell your gf about it. that should straighten things out a bit. just an idea, -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 24, 2003 Share Posted May 24, 2003 I don't think this guy is so concerned about doing things right. I think he's just excited about seeing the show. He has probably already forgotten what the project is all about. After his post above, he's not about to ask her to dress modestly. That's what this is all about. Link to post Share on other sites
luvmyboys Posted May 24, 2003 Share Posted May 24, 2003 I'd say you're not ready for a steady relationship if you proudly boast about why you wanted the sexy one working with you. Do your girlfriend a favor and set her free, life is too short and you more than have a roving eye from what I've read. Oh, but I forgot, guys like to play with the dollies you describe but need the sweet; moral girls to take to their cousin's wedding. Right? Link to post Share on other sites
Girl Posted May 25, 2003 Share Posted May 25, 2003 Oh grow up little boy!!! Link to post Share on other sites
don_guyus Posted May 27, 2003 Share Posted May 27, 2003 Hmm, from the replies I got, it seems that I was not quite in the right. Perhaps I'll do better next time. Link to post Share on other sites
Kat Posted May 28, 2003 Share Posted May 28, 2003 What exactly did you expect? Did you even read your first post? You described your work mate as a porn model. Get over it...... break up with your girlfriend. You do not deserve her! Link to post Share on other sites
BadMan Posted May 29, 2003 Share Posted May 29, 2003 Don, Don't worry about what they say. I have been here for a while and alot of these people like to put themselves on a moral pedastal. I'm sure everybody on this board has done something to be ashamed of. If they haven't they are not human. I don't see anything wrong with what you did or are doing. It's not like you are married. Geez, live it up while you can. peace Link to post Share on other sites
Neo Posted August 6, 2003 Share Posted August 6, 2003 You know, after seeing your site and all I don't think you are after a long-term relationship here. Link to post Share on other sites
jalexy Posted August 7, 2003 Share Posted August 7, 2003 Originally posted by Kat What exactly did you expect? Did you even read your first post? You described your work mate as a porn model. Get over it...... break up with your girlfriend. You do not deserve her! BINGO! Link to post Share on other sites
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