Love?

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Sigh... another day is going by, and I'm thinking about her all the time. What is this feeling? Is this love, and if so how can I control it?

 

I am so obsessive when it comes to these things. When I find out that a girl I like also likes me, that is when things go haywire. She told me that she feels the same way I do - we are so much alike, it is scary.

 

Maybe I should profess my love for her. Why should I do this, is it a sign that I am insecure about how she feels about me? She told me she is afraid of that word...love. I don't know what to think about that.

 

I know I love her, my feelings are growing day by day. I don't want to know what I would be like if she was gone. I don't want to think that at all. She isn't here now. She lives 2 hrs away from me. It hurts to not be able to have her at my side. I just wish ... hm.. wish.. desire... love... human.

 

I don't know, I am only human. So are you who are reading this. What should I do? What is the perfect way to ruin my chances with her? What are the nono's? What are the yesyes's? Thanks for your time.

 

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[Just A Girl2]

Can't really advise you without at least a little more info.

 

First of all, what ages are you both?

 

Are you officially dating each other/seeing each other exclusively?

 

How long for?

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I met this girl about half a year ago. I'm 19, and she is 18. We go to colleges that are about 20 minutes apart, but for the summer (3 months), we are living about 2 hours apart. I talk to her online a lot, and on the phone a lot. Recently we went on a trip to Cedar Point (amusement park) with a bunch of friends.

 

We aren't dating right now, it is kind of tough with the distance. Our feelings are growing though, and we have talked about the Fall. I wish Fall would come sooner, so that we can begin dating.. sigh..

 

What should i do?