Why Me Posted May 25, 2003 Share Posted May 25, 2003 I used to regularly post on this forum about this guy I was seeing for two years. He gave me a lot of material to write about! Anyways, we FINALLY broke up for good about 8 months ago. I haven't talked to him or seen him since the day we broke up. Yesterday I received a phone call from him wanting to know how I was and wanting to get together. I told him I had a lot of time to get over what happened between us and that I'm no longer interested in him (which is actually true). However he will not leave me alone and insists on seeing me one more time. He keeps saying he made a mistake, blah, blah.. I don't feel anything for this guy anymore but he won't get the picture. I find it hard to be a bitch with guys and maybe that's why this is happening. Our relationship was turbulent to put it mildly and in no way want to ever go back to that. What can I say to this guy to get it through this head that I don't want to start anything with him again, that I've moved in every way? Link to post Share on other sites
Tony T Posted May 25, 2003 Share Posted May 25, 2003 YOU WRITE: "What can I say to this guy to get it through this head that I don't want to start anything with him again, that I've moved in every way?" Just be very firm and tell him you're not interested. If he insists, tell him you'll meet him somewhere but your fiance insists on coming along. I think that will end it right there. If that doesn't do it, tell him if he calls one more time, you will report him to police for making harassing phone calls. Link to post Share on other sites
EnigmaXOXO Posted May 25, 2003 Share Posted May 25, 2003 You just keep telling him "no." You could also request that he stop calling or you will have the phone number changed. It's not all that difficult to be firm if you really want to put an end to it. ...But do you? Link to post Share on other sites
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